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When finally deciding it is time to get back out into the single world, how do you do it? I'm not in my 20's anymore and going to a bar is not the answer. Two points on that: 1) Just don't party, drink or stay up that late anymore besides who wants to smell like smoke. 2). NOT 20 anymore, do you remember being at a bar and seeing the "old" people sitting at the bar trying to pick someone up....Yeah, you remember...the "OLD People"....guess what? Those old people were in their 40's....it just isn't cool anymore.

So now what? New area, so no friends to visit or hang with or even meet someone new through...social groups? single groups? ...oh, yeah....got young kids....can't do that. Kids first alway...

So, where do the 40 year olds that are single go? What do we do? I'm usually at work, home or with the kids...so, what do you do? (besides the online thing LOL)