I kind of agree and also disagree with you all in a way. Although u might be right about it takes two to ruin a relationship or it takes to build a relationship or in a relationship u have to meet the other person half way etc etc, sometimes it does work and sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes a man or woman might be in a relationship and no matter how nice they might be or how hard they try to save the relationship they still find everything going down hill. Men play games as well as women so u can't soley put the blame on one person. All i can say is that finding a good woman or a good man is all based on "LUCK."