I have been at these date sites for years. And yes I am single. I remember when I first started and it bothered me to no end all the flakes, married types etc., scammers and more. You have to ask yourself a question. Why do people do this? Frankly I think it is because more humans are well a little off in the head. I can spot a weirdo a mile away. In a way it is fun and another it is sad. You just have to not let any of it bother you. You can't change it. You must understand these sites are about making money not helping you find a relationship. Finding one happens the old way. You meet at an activity that you are interested in. Like a sport, church and any social gathering. Sadly these date sites could help a lot if the people on them were serious, skilled, conscious and meaningful. Wait are we talking about humans here??? Enjoy, Patrick