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Fri 05/13/11 07:49 PM

i think we got the same problem...lol...coz at my age of 24 would u believe ive never been in a relationship?...guess my man is taking his time too much looking for me...lol...


lol...it took me for more than 4 years to find the man that I've been looking/asking for...and everything are doing perfectly great...be patient flowerforyou ....

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Wed 05/11/11 11:51 PM




According to the thread about what a man needs to be happy, all a woman has to do to get and keep a man is:


1. Be a really good cook and house keeper.
2. Love lots of sex and give blow jobs.
3. Worship him as a god.
4. Let him watch football or whatever he likes on T.V.








more along the lines of:
1. Be attractive, stay attractive. (if you don't want your man to consider sleeping with someone else, give him something on which to focus his attention.
2. Treat him like he's the second most important person in your life and the most important man in your life. (yourself being number one, but not to the point of being a selfish diva)
3. Put out regularly because you actually enjoy sex and never use sex as a bargaining tool. Sex should never be given as a reward for good behavior or withheld because you didn't get your way.
4. Don't cause your man any grief. The last thing a man wants is to put up with a woman acting like a spoiled child. A man wants to have an upfront and mature relationship. High maintenance women are undesirable.

This is just my personal opinion.
This man doesn't want to be worshiped or fed. As far as the TV goes, we men use it as an escape from reality. Whether it be sports, movies, or video games, it helps us discharge our mental batteries.


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I think I'm gonna throw up after reading this one...if you want ur woman to "put out" instead of putting YOU out treat her decent - help with the housework and cooking, n don't spend every free minute staring at that idiot box because that's truly who it's for - idiots

and don't expect sex to take 5 minutes - if ur not in it for the romance factor we will find another man who is

have a nice day


i find it interesting that so many words were added into what i wrote. i could swear that i didn't say anything about a woman having to do all the cooking and cleaning. and i never said anything about sitting and watching tv every free minute. and i never said anything about sex only lasting 5 minutes. also never said anything about not treating a woman decent.

that's one heck of an interpreter program that you must be using.


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oops oops oops oops think think think

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Sun 05/08/11 03:18 PM
Pacquiao wins by unanimous decision ??????huh huh huh

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Sat 05/07/11 11:03 PM

Happy Mother's Day Tessa. Have a great weekend and take care, my friend. Miss you:-)

mary ann



Thank you Mary Ann. and have a nice weekend too...miss yah and talk to you soon.flowerforyou

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Sat 05/07/11 11:01 PM

:heart: Tessa I believe that God guides us into other's lives to make SOMETHING HAPPEN,,TO MAKE BETTER,,TO MAKE MORE?
Now that can cover a wrld with thought,,,but truly,,we find each other through his Grace as to become a friend,,,and then its on how much we grow inside through THAT friendship,,that determines,,how the friendship go's...I am VERY GLAD,,God brought US together to see each other as one we call our FRIEND,,,and YOU do bring much joy into my heart,,knowing you really like me as your real friend here,,and in this world,,,YOUR POEM,,is very sweet and reads with a great amount of love for all your friendships and your fasmily,,,,Big HUGS,,and know I AM,,your real friend,,,,,:heart:


Thank you for being a friend Terry....flowerforyou

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Sat 05/07/11 10:45 PM
Hi and welcome to Mingle....write more about yourself and let people know you.Goodluck...flowerforyou

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Sat 05/07/11 10:37 PM
"Congratulations to both of you, how I wish I can post mine like this soon"blushing blushing blushing blushing ....

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Thu 05/05/11 12:54 AM
.......a mature man should know by the time he turns 40

1. The difference between love and lust

2. How to change a tire, a diaper and a womans mind.

3. When to hold on when to let go.

4. Your capacity for intimacy and alcohol

5. Basic Carpentry, plumbing and automotive repair.

6. Advanced foreplay

7. At least one woman whose love for you besides your mother is enduring and substanstial

8. Trouble when you see it.

9. True love when you see it.

10. A load of bull when you hear it.

11. The symptoms of PMS

12. your Strengths and weaknesses

13.the Art of seduction

14. How to fast and slow dance.

15.Realize that your wife (lover, girlfriend) is not your mother.

16. A woman’s erogenous zones

17. How to negotiate the inevitable compromise of a romantic relationship in ways that keep both sides as happy as possible.

18. What you want out of life and how to go for it

19. Which medical test you need

20. How to make money, dinner, conversation and love.

21. How to start a fire in a hearth and a heart

22. A realistic plan to secure your retirement

23. How to unhook a bra with one hand - in the dark.

24. Where to get breakfast/gas/and a prescription at 2:00 in the morning

25. How to give a toast and receive a complement.

26. How to be gracious in victory and defeat

27. When to talk and when to listen.

28. At least one true friend who will be there for you whenever you call

29. The ten commandments

30. The fundamental workings of the female psych

31. The importance of trying to follow them

32. How to close a deal

33. Your way around a kitchen

34. The futility of unrequited love

35. How to open a bottle of champagne

36. What really matters

37. What doesn't.

38. the power and magic of a good woman.

39. What other people think of you.

40. Your own needs and another persons ability to fulfill them.


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Mon 05/02/11 01:46 AM
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that
Person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
You have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with
Guidance and support,

To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an
End.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
Fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.



Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
Come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy..

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.



LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,

Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
Foundation..

Your job is to accept the lesson,

Love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
Relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.



Thank you for being a part of my life,

Whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

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Wed 04/27/11 08:40 AM

I've been here on site for long, my main reason why i'm here is bcoz i need a very STABLE, SERIOUS AND CONSISTENCE RELATIONSHIP. Any woman who's serious about having a life partner should pls hit me up... I sincerely need someone wit me to move on. ANY AGE AND ANY SKIN TYPE IS WELCOME...ITS NOT A CARRIER FOR ME. I'm simply here for REAL LOVE Who i'm gonna COMMIT MYSELF TOO...thanks.


04-17-11 is not long enough to find what you are looking for here in Mingle.Geezz...It took me over 4 years to find my long journey sage, but he is worth waiting forlove
Be patient and goodluck to your searchflowerforyou

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Mon 04/25/11 05:52 AM
Hi and welcome to Mingleflowerforyou

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Mon 04/25/11 05:50 AM
LOVE + HAPPINESS = CONTENTMENT in life

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Fri 04/22/11 12:25 AM
"YES" it is and he is in my SKYPElove love love

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Thu 04/21/11 11:11 PM
"trust yourself first before you trust other people"

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Thu 04/21/11 11:05 PM
I wanna be me- just me at all timesblushing

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Thu 04/21/11 10:33 PM
I learned the following from him :


-time management
-how to date properly
-and how to grow more as a better personblushing

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Thu 04/21/11 10:23 PM

1) How many of you are looking for just friendship ??

2) How many of you are looking for someone special ??




1. My door is always open for friendship

2. No longer looking-I've already found my special someone here in Minglelove

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Tue 04/19/11 10:57 PM
love love love flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :banana:

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Tue 04/19/11 02:23 AM
"the older ,the better...
"the younger, the worst....my opinionblushing

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Sat 04/16/11 04:09 PM
In love:heart: :heart: :heart: love love love

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