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Tue 01/12/10 08:27 PM

So if you know someone is cheating--- should you tell?
what if the person doing the cheating is a friend??


be a friend and stay out of it.

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Tue 01/12/10 08:24 PM

pictures of their feet??

Is it for guys who have a foot fetish? I'm clueless on this one.



umm i don't have a foot fetish, but those feet are ugly...^^^

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Tue 01/12/10 08:18 PM

Went!!:banana: :banana: I was the one to 'stand him up'!!:banana: :banana: A first for me, I'm so proud!!tongue2 He was a 'jerk' on the phone!!!slaphead


ohh you're still talking about that 3 min guy??

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Mon 01/11/10 09:51 PM

Say someone is legally divorced but they are still living with their ex-wife/husband would you still date them?


no.

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Mon 01/11/10 09:49 PM

I met a man with two sons 23, 25 living at home. We have dated for a few months now. I have introduced him to my 15 year old child and welcomed him into my home. I still have not been invited to his home and do not know where he lives. He tells me I can look it up in the phone book, its no secret. I ask why have I not been invited to his home and he tells me he is protecting his boys. He is not ready to introduce them to anyone yet as he is still married.

He has told me he has a divorce going on. Has lived apart from his wife for 5 years now. So why is it an issue that I not be invited to his home? Is he really filing for a divorce? has he? does she still live there? what do you all think of this? he tells me he is in love with me and does not want to lose me. To me his children are grown adults not babies. Why is it an issue for me to go there?

YOu have any clues or insight for me?


Look him up in a phonebook?
He sounds like an Azz!
Do yourself and your 15 year old son a favor and dump that douche, quick!
He's having an affair with you, he's married and he is not leaving his wife for you. And even if he did, he'd do the same crap to you.

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Mon 01/11/10 09:29 PM

The person I was going to meet, I don't think I am!! He called to 'chat', and I tried, but I could barely understand him!! He also claimed his cell phone only allowed him to talk for 3 minutes at a time!?!noway I never heard of that!!noway Luckily, his # shows up as unknown, so now I'll ignore it, like I ignore the others!!ohwell I think he's from Turkey, just on vacation, or something.frustrated I feel so dumb now!!frustrated


3 min? thats enough for him to call you on his cellphone while he is using the bathroom, so his girlfriend doesn't find out..lol

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Mon 01/11/10 09:26 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Mon 01/11/10 09:26 PM
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Mon 01/11/10 09:21 PM

i am 50 but i still look good


..because they expect you to make the first move.:wink:

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Mon 01/11/10 09:18 PM



To every male 35 years and up within 50 miles of me...
Think I'll get a date?


hmm I thought they had a 5 New contact e-mails per day limit on mingle?:tongue:

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Mon 01/11/10 09:15 PM
ha ha yea, who hasn't?

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Mon 01/11/10 09:08 PM

yea mine isnt a fear of rejection... that doesnt bother me.. but i just get nervous when they are a stranger.. that is why i usually date someone i already know.. or have talked to them for a while even online first even then.. i get nervous sometimes if i really thought i liked them!


stranger or not, its still fear of rejection.:wink:
You date ppl that you already know, cuz you feel that you know in advance, if they kinda like you or not. (Through friends..etc)
Casual flirting is not a commitment, just kinda a subtle way to find out if the other person is interested in you a bit or not.
No one turns down a casual flirt, they may just not return it...and then you know that they are not interested..Pretty easy isn't it?
If anything, its good practice to flirt with EVERYONE! It makes it soo much easier then when a guy that you are really interested in, comes along cuz you're on a roll!

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Mon 01/11/10 08:56 PM

heres what happened today...
i was in a very small liquor store.. while passing the front door , i notice this guy outside on his cell phone.. i dont normally even really notice stuff like that but he was talking about a trip with someone as i passed by, his back was turned to me. but i looked cause he was talking.. i go inside... a man in front of me.. then me in the line.. i saw something move behind me so i glanced.. it was the buff cell phone guy.. somehere between 35-42 not sure..when i glanced he smiled really big..with a flirt look in his eyes.. cant really tell u what was on my face at all!!i just turned back , quick glance.. then it was my turn.. i realize my debit card is the old one ex 1/10.. and forgot my new one at home..cashier says just a minute i said ok because i need to find my debit card anyway.. then thats when i realized i ask her is this card still good told ex date.. the guy behind replies it should be till the end of the month, i guess u will know when she scans it.. and i looked again that big grin... then when done it went through.. he says now that u know its good maybe u could use it on my purchase.. i know i smiled then..i still dont know but there were 2 people behind him.. and i did not know if he was flirting or what..my roommate said he was.. but what am i to do? yanno? ill never see him again lmao!


I think you are reading into this too much....
yea, he was flirting, but not because he was interested in dating you or anything..he was just making flirtatious small talk.
Sadly, you will prolly never see this guy again. It's too late now..
Next time don't be so shy, and say something clever back, and see what happens.:tongue:

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Mon 01/11/10 08:50 PM

I have been 'asked' out on another dating site, the guy seems nice after looking at his profile, but the problem for me is, I am 5'6", and he is only 4' tall!! I would feel so awkward!! What do you think?? Would you guys just 'overlook' the height issue, and 'meet'?? Thanx!:heart:


Although a few inches shorter would be ok (2-3 inches), this height difference would be a dealbreaker for me.
I think if you feel awkward about meeting him due to his height, you'd be wasting your time to go on a date with him, and possibly leading him on by doing so.

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Mon 01/11/10 08:41 PM

to be a woman on here searching for someone to go out and have fun with (nothing serious) and find a man who doesnt just want SEX?!?!

brokenheart




Mission Impossible.

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Mon 01/11/10 08:34 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Mon 01/11/10 08:35 PM



Went out last night with some family and friends to have a few drinks. And the bartender was asking a friend and my mother questions about me when I was NOT around. I didn't find out till this morning. He asked them how old I am (Even though he had already been serving me drinks, What I do for work, what I like to do, Do I read, play games, What do I like to eat, and the like.

does he like me? or is he just being curious/ friendly?


Could be various things.
But my guess is, since he is a bartender, he was prolly just striking up some small talk for a better tip. JMO


But he has never done that before. And has been working there for a few months now. I found out last night that he is single and looking. And just got a new place. SO I'm not sure what to think of all of this. I guess I wait till sat night or sun to see.


Yea, I'm sure he has done this before...he's a bartender, they make they living on mixing drinks and having random flirtatious small talk with people.:tongue:
Just next time talk to him for a bit, and get a vibe on if he is feeling you or not..don't straight up ask him tho, play it smooth.
Ask him a few questions about him..if he answers he may be interested.:wink:
Good Luck!

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Mon 01/11/10 08:06 PM

Went out last night with some family and friends to have a few drinks. And the bartender was asking a friend and my mother questions about me when I was NOT around. I didn't find out till this morning. He asked them how old I am (Even though he had already been serving me drinks, What I do for work, what I like to do, Do I read, play games, What do I like to eat, and the like.

does he like me? or is he just being curious/ friendly?


Could be various things.
But my guess is, since he is a bartender, he was prolly just striking up some small talk for a better tip. JMO

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Wed 01/06/10 09:53 PM
sweet tat, and what i can gather from your pics you seem like a fun loving guy...:thumbsup:

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Tue 01/05/10 12:16 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Tue 01/05/10 12:18 PM

Cowboys 24

Saints 17


ha ha yea, I hope so too! ;)

but realistically, I am guessing it will be more like:

Vikings: 31
Saints: 17

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Tue 01/05/10 12:11 PM
I hope my Dallas Cowboys will make it!:tongue:

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Mon 01/04/10 11:24 AM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Mon 01/04/10 11:24 AM
I'm happy at least one of my favorite Sportsteams is doing good this year! Go Cowboys!:banana: I hope we beat the Eagles again next week!