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Wed 04/29/20 01:59 AM

My LDR is an almost 8 hour drive and its working for me. It can work and it depends upon what each wants to get out of the relationship.
I'm not looking to get married, as I'd lose my Survivor Benefit. I am not willing to move... I got a business. He's not willing to sell and move either. We each have a different lifestyle.
We are each able to escape the daily work chores and visit each other for a week or 2 or 3 at a time. Because I am City, he drives and visits me more in the winter. He is rural, so I drive there spring/summer/fall..
Yea, sometimes we go for 3-4 weeks without seeing each other,.. but then he gets so lonely and in the truck he gets.. I get sick of working and jump in my car.. so again, for us, its working so far.
Its been 2 years now and it takes a long time to get to know someone (habits, values, etc.) in this manner. I know I am stuck in this lifestyle for at least another year and after that circumstances may change and who knows..longer stays with him at his place.:tongue: but its always nice to come home..

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Wed 04/29/20 01:39 AM
Honestly, I think this all depends on the individuals involved, you can't force a round peg into a square hole.

LDR for me is a YES!!! It has worked for me in time past and it will work for me again if I find one right this minute.

Very many of us want to love and just don't wanna pay the sacrifice.
When we are hungry we GO get food, when we are dirty we GO get a shower but when it comes to love we all want to wake up one morning and meet it on our bed just like that... It doesn't work that way,

If you guys live miles apart, plant to meet, make it memorable. If the chemistry is there, try making it permanent by moving next to each other, it is possible and we can always do whatever we set out minds to do, but pride and arrogance just won't let us do anything

LDR works perfectly well.