I get up at 5:30 every morning and just toss on whatever clean clothes come within my grasp. I never match. I've probably worn miss-matched socks every day for four years now.
I'm not fussy at all about what I wear. I've got no one to impress, and as long as I look clean, no one really cares whether I match or not. ^_^

Sitting around and waiting isn't going to do anything for you. I suggest going out and searching. You can't complain about not "finding" a good person at the same time that you are complaining about men not coming up to you.
It's the 21st century, and we, as women, are going to have to step up our game to compete with lazy, sedentary men in this age of awesome video games.
There are millions of fish in the sea, and that gorgeous face of yours is awesome bait, but you'll need an air of feminine power to really hook a man, and confidence to reel him in.