I just started using this site but i think I have mutual match figured out. If you say yes to a person they present you with that person also has to tag you with a yes answer before they show up on your list.

I personally said no to most and yes to a handful and I received one mutual match, so either the other women I said yes to, have not used that feature since i put up my profile, or they said no.

Whats funny is that the one mutual match I did receive is pretty much the kind of woman I am looking for so I guess that feature gets my thumbs up!

Have a great day all!