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If someone has a girlfriend
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but your question was...if someone has a girlfriend or boyfriend does that make them off linits???
you didnt say just dating....if you date you jump around from one person to the next... girlfriend/boyfriend...doesnt that mean relationship???? |
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If someone has a girlfriend
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or boyfriend does that make them off limits? UUUmmmmm Yeah |
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Let's get controversial lol
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You know, personally, I think I have a highly refined sense of spirituality...capable of encompassing people of all religions without judging them or damning them only because their faith differs from mine. I think it makes one more "Godly" (for lack of a better word or phrase) to be able to listen with an open mind, realize that the other's faith/opinion isn't wrong...only different...and accepting the fact that I don't know everything...will never know everything...and some things are supposed to remain a mystery. Questions without answers. Unless you look at the answer from the most simplest of views. When I asked my 7 year old son what the meaning of life was, he responded: "Meaning of life? You mean...why there is life? Or what our life means?" I told him either, he said: "There's life because there's supposed to be life." I asked him why. He said, "Because there just is." He said it so matter of factly, like I should already know that. When I asked him about the other, he said: "Our life means being good to each other and loving everybody and just..living." I couldn't have said it better myself. 
I think as adults we over-analyze everything...there is only "one" answer to any equation...and some answers arn't acceptable, so we spend our lives trying to prove them wrong. If only we were all 7 year olds again. How much simpler and happier the world would be...oh wait...except when it comes to sharing the toys. 
Very nicely put and so agree with you
Thank you hon :) But truely, the credit goes to my son lol Were it not for my children, I would never be able to keep things in perspective.
I have to tell you i have been reading all of this..and it makes me kind of sad how some people feel that what they say should be the "right "way...all people have different beliefs about there god....and everyone has the right to how they feel and think... I beleive in "my god" and i believe in Jesus but i also am very spiritual....i believe that god is everywhere...and everything...i am a good person and i teach my children about him....but i also feel my children should make there own decision about how they want to feel about about there own religion....my kids started to go to a youth group every week and my one son loves it the other not really for him...i respect that in him...he is like me..believes in god and prays to him...and that to me makes me happy enough right now.... i do have to say i was brought up catholic...when i was pregnant with my son becasue i wasnt married to the father i was told by the church that if i wasnt marrioed to the dad then i was going to go to hell and that i was living in sin...i was so shocked that, that day i stopped being a catholic...i dont think anyone on this earth had the right to judge others becasue they dont believe in anothers religion....i believe and this is only my belief that only god has the right to judge you and i think that is how you live your life and whether you were a good peron on this earth...but that is just my opinion... |
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guys in their 30s
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Yeah well when your in your 30's older men in there 40's are HOT...
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Let's get controversial lol
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You know, personally, I think I have a highly refined sense of spirituality...capable of encompassing people of all religions without judging them or damning them only because their faith differs from mine. I think it makes one more "Godly" (for lack of a better word or phrase) to be able to listen with an open mind, realize that the other's faith/opinion isn't wrong...only different...and accepting the fact that I don't know everything...will never know everything...and some things are supposed to remain a mystery. Questions without answers. Unless you look at the answer from the most simplest of views. When I asked my 7 year old son what the meaning of life was, he responded: "Meaning of life? You mean...why there is life? Or what our life means?" I told him either, he said: "There's life because there's supposed to be life." I asked him why. He said, "Because there just is." He said it so matter of factly, like I should already know that. When I asked him about the other, he said: "Our life means being good to each other and loving everybody and just..living." I couldn't have said it better myself.
I think as adults we over-analyze everything...there is only "one" answer to any equation...and some answers arn't acceptable, so we spend our lives trying to prove them wrong. If only we were all 7 year olds again. How much simpler and happier the world would be...oh wait...except when it comes to sharing the toys.
Very nicely put and so agree with you
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Sappnin Everyone????
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How is everyone this fine friday evening???? ready to call it a early night..i have to be up at 4 am for work.....yeehaaaaa 
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rhyme game
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rules- pick a word that rhymes with what is below in capital letters and continue it on and let your mind be endless with creativity 
POKE Joke |
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need your advice...
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I was on this morning when i asked for everyones advice...i got off the computer and couldnt sleep because this is just taking over my brain....so i did alot of thinking.....She wont be getting out of jail at this point not unless she can come up with 50,000..which i dont see happening...i will wait a few days to see her..at this point i cant..i am going to wait untill she detoxes for a bit....i will tell her i love her...its aweful hard however to stand by her..that is where i am having a controversy..i dont know how to stand by her....but i will tlak to her for a bit and just see how it goes......we shall see how the conversation goes....i am sure we will both be crying......
Thankyou again to everyone who has commented....it means alot....you all rock!!!! 
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night night
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night night sleep tight...dont let the bed bugs bite...if they do grab a shoe and beat them till there black and blue.....
I am getting sleepy and need my bed....sweet dreams everyone.....nite |
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need your advice...
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And your all very much right...i thankyou for your input....and unfortunatly she is where she needs to be......And i pray to god that man lives.....either way she is going to be behind bars for a while and maybe they can help her while she is there.....
Thankyou again...
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need your advice...
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well i know..i am ashamed of her right now but yet i feel bad for her..should i go see her..shouldnt i???
I guess when i am a friend with someone i try to be there for them always.....i just feel bad for the whole situation and was trying to see what all you out there would do....thats all |
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need your advice...
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A friend of mine has had a very bad drinking and drug problem.....to the point she has lost everything....her husband left her..and she ended up moving in with a guy who supports all her habits....i have tried my best in the past to help her...went to meetings with her...she pretty much turned on me when i wouldnt give her money and all to support her habits...i am not stupid i knew where it was gonna go to...well...last night she was in an accident...she hit a man crossing the road and she was drunk...the police found crack in her vehicle..which i didnt even knew she did....the man had to be mercy flighted and not sure if her will make it..she is in jail and has at this point 4 counts against her....now me being a friend i am having a hard time standing by her on this...i feel like just washing my hands of her...i dont think i could ever look at her again...is this wrong of me??? what would you all do?????
If the man dies she is facing vehicular manslaughter... |
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here is another why?
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I wouldn't want to leave beautiful Arizona, but if I met "the one" and she lived across the country I'm not going to give up happiness just to live in a particular place. If she couldn't move then I would. Of course, finding out if they are "the one" becomes increasingly difficult in direct proportion to the distances involved, so I think I have a much better chance of nurturing a relationship to that point if the person lives within at most a 3-4 hour drive for me. Just the realities of an LDR for me.
I agree with you, there is a lot of communication that has to be on a LDR. But no one will answer my question Why if anyone that feels this way would you expect anyone to make the effort if your not willing to meet half way.
I cannot speak for anyone else only for myself....I am not willing at this point in my life to leave where i live...because of my kids and family here and my kids have planted roots in the school and friends etc.etc....so for me to get into a LDR would be just nuts...wouldnt happen....its nice to fantasize about it...so to chit chat with others on here..is fine with me....as far as others in my area there arent many..lol.....but hopefully in about 5 years when my youngest graduates.....i am outta here....time for mom to live....NY is just getting old for me......lol does that help Shadow????  I understand where your at. There are some people that can't just get up and move. but what i'm looking at is the ones that can...
Well i guess if i could i would definatly meet half way....and then see where it goes from there |
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Do you keep your heart...
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...in a cage? If so, what do you think is worse, a broken heart  , or a lonely one? Don't both feel about the same?
no when its broken you are really crushed...when you lonely...... your just horny......
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here is another why?
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I wouldn't want to leave beautiful Arizona, but if I met "the one" and she lived across the country I'm not going to give up happiness just to live in a particular place. If she couldn't move then I would. Of course, finding out if they are "the one" becomes increasingly difficult in direct proportion to the distances involved, so I think I have a much better chance of nurturing a relationship to that point if the person lives within at most a 3-4 hour drive for me. Just the realities of an LDR for me.
I agree with you, there is a lot of communication that has to be on a LDR. But no one will answer my question Why if anyone that feels this way would you expect anyone to make the effort if your not willing to meet half way.
I cannot speak for anyone else only for myself....I am not willing at this point in my life to leave where i live...because of my kids and family here and my kids have planted roots in the school and friends etc.etc....so for me to get into a LDR would be just nuts...wouldnt happen....its nice to fantasize about it...so to chit chat with others on here..is fine with me....as far as others in my area there arent many..lol.....but hopefully in about 5 years when my youngest graduates.....i am outta here....time for mom to live....NY is just getting old for me......lol does that help Shadow???? |
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here is another why?
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I think it is only fair that you meet half way.....
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Let's get controversial lol
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the wiccans here protested the nativity scene on the courthouse lawn, and got a permit to set up a booth right next to them. they were shunned and heckled but i thought it was great! yeah, separation of church & state right, but the word "god" appears on every piece of currency we have. it's a losing battle, just keep your beliefs to yourself and try not to get to heated about it. if everybody did this the world would be a much nicer place
I believe in "to each their own", unless what they're doing directly affects me or my children in a negative way, who am I to judge? lol And that's awsome about the Coven(s) in your area! I would have loved to have seen the booth they created. I just find all religions facinating and love learning about their beliefs and ways of life...it's truely eye opening. :) The differences, and the similarities.
I would have to agree with you there Scinn...i love to here and learn all religion..i am very spiritual...i believe in a god..i call him "my god"...the one i believe in in my heart and my mind....and he may not be like the one someone else believes in...but that is what is so facinating... |
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Boyfriends
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TY TY..i loved it had to share with you all
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When you are dating..... Farting is never an issue.
When you are married ....You make sure there's nothing flammable near your husband at all times. When you are dating..... He takes you out to have a good time. When you are married ....He brings home a 6 pack, and says 'What are you going to drink?' When you are dating..... He holds your hand in public. When you are married ....He flicks your ear in public. When you are dating..... A Single bed for 2 isn't THAT bad. When you are married ....A King size bed feels like an army cot. When you are dating..... You are turned on at the sight of him naked. When you are married ....You think to yourself 'Was he ALWAYS this hairy????' When you are dating..... You enjoyed foreplay. When you are married ....You tell him 'If we have sex, will you leave me alone???' When you are dating..... He hugs you, when he walks by you for no reason. When you are married ....He grabs your boob any chance he gets. When you are dating..... You picture the two of you together, growing old together. When you are married ....You wonder who will die first. When you are dating..... Just looking at him makes you feel all 'mushy.' When you are married ....When you look at him, you want to claw his eyes out. When you are dating..... He knows what the 'hamper' is. When you are married ....The floor will suffice as a dirty clothes storage area. When you are dating..... He understands if you 'Aren't in the mood.' When you are married ....He says 'It's your job.' When you are dating..... He understands that you have 'male' friends. When you are married ....He thinks they are all out to steal you away. When you are dating..... He likes to 'discuss' things. When you are married ....He develops a 'blank' stare. When you are dating..... He calls you by name. When you are married ....He calls you 'Hey' and refers to you when speaking to others as 'She.'
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Boyfriends
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The Suggestor - 'Don't you think that dress is a little too short for
church? Don't you think you're a little too old for that style?' Also known as: Wet Blanket, Killjoy, Run screaming before he sucks you into the black hole Advantages: Is always paying attention to you Disadvantages: Is always paying attention to you Mr. Couch Potato - 'Honey, could you hand me the remote?' Also known as: The Lump, What's That on Your Couch Advantages: Will never leave you Disadvantages: Will never leave your house Drugboy - 'Hey, let's get stoned and go see The Wall.' Also known as: Pothead, Junkie, Drunkard Advantages: Will never hesitate to let you know how much he needs you Disadvantages: He needs you to help him keep up his drug supply Mr. Moneybags - 'Let's take a weekend junket to Zanzibar! No, honey, I'll pay for everything!' Also known as: Cash Man, A Fool and His Money, Boy with the Bucks, Mr. Hidden Agenda Advantages: Will spend a lot of money on you Disadvantages: Will expect to rule your every move and entire life from the first penny he spends forward Dopey - 'Hi! I know it's three in the morning, but you told me if I was ever in the neighborhood, I should stop by!' Also known as: Dunce, Clueless, I Can't Believe He Just Doesn't Get It Advantages: Has a charming naivete about him Disadvantages: Eventually you realize that will never go away Lounge Lizard - 'Hey, babe, let's go to my place. I want to lick the sweat from your navel.' Also known as: John Revolting, Hey Baby, Don't You Know the Seventies are Over Advantages: I'm thinking Disadvantages: Will leave slime on every surface he touches The Complainer - 'I hate my job. I hate my car. I hate my roommates. I hate my life.' Also known as: Mr. Depressing; Whine, Whine, Whine; Just Shut Up Before I Strangle You dvantages: Talks to you Disadvantages: Talks to you all the time Mr. Nice Guy - 'The ballet? Whatever you want, honey.' Also known as: The Good Sport, Sweetheart, Spineless Advantages: Will do whatever you want Disadvantages: Will never make any suggestions Prince Charming - 'Dearest, I love you just the wonderful way you are. I must take you into my arms and ravish you now.' Also known as: Mr. Right, The Man, I've Been Looking For You Advantages: All Disadvantages: May not exist |
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