trust, can translate into so many other issues, such as integrity, self discipline, control, known consequence and of course, truth.

In any relationship, as it grows, there are elements of trust forming. We're infatuated and that person almost consumes a large percentage of our thoughts or conversations, awake from work.

The more we surrender unto and into each other, and surpass the boundries of sex being all, that we begin to form a total giving. And when that is broken, for whatever reason, the hearbreak is devastating. Is there or can there be a repair? Perhaps there is forgiveness, but I doubt there is any forget.

I have said to many young men. You don't go home to your wife. You go home, because that is where your family is. No amount of beers, no game on the tube, no strip tease girls, and no lies can be worth the loss of those who care about you the most. If you screw up the choice, be prepared for the consequences. Once your word is lost, all is lost.