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Tue 07/29/08 03:51 PM
funny you should mention this, having this problem right now. Have no idea what to say, of course it would be the truth, but not sure how to get it to come across without sounding cruel.

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Mon 07/28/08 06:56 PM
ive been single 29 yrs 5mths and 3weeks
turn 30 in a week, was hoping to find someone before then, not gonna happen.

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Sun 07/27/08 03:31 PM
Girl, if I was any good, I would take you up on the offer. Love a good card game.

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Sun 07/27/08 02:55 PM
awww poor baby, I would make you some soup, but I think the toast is better, hope you feel better though. flowers

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Sat 07/26/08 05:26 PM
Yeah, i agree with the majority too, you should go for it, but I dont think you will have this fairy tale romance that you both are thinking, especially with the child of a friend involved, he cant stay out of her life. You need to really tell urself if its worth it to hurt all of u including the child, and if you can deal with those consequences, try it out. Dont miss out on the opportunity.

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Fri 07/25/08 03:25 PM
I date outside my race all the time, for no specific reason. But damn its sexy to see those two tones smacking together.....well, um, let me just leave it at that. winking

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Mon 07/21/08 08:53 PM
i like golden graham cereal, ice cream, smoothies, or triscuits or ginger snaps. Im a big snacker, LOL. I also have a weakness for potato chips with cream cheese, tops the list.

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Sun 07/20/08 05:23 PM
That does bother me, but another thing that creeps me out is when people say "I didnt put a photo up cause other people delete profiles/play games"??? This just makes me think that they dont want their wife/bf/gf to know their on a internet site. Then they say, I can send a photo to ur email or to ur phone, WTFofftopic

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Sun 07/20/08 05:19 PM
my nose and my butt, one is too big, one is too small, LOL

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Sat 07/19/08 04:09 PM
I did speed dating once, it was fun. The only reason it was so short due to trying to organize such a huge event. I met great guys and girls, but not a match. would do it again. Its just like most say pay 30-40 bucks, pick a group of interests, for example, 21-25, or active lifestyle etc. Then usually the guys move from table to table, u get number, they get a number and if the numbers match, u get a email usually thru a site (something esle you have to pay for, possibly). Good luck if you give it a try. flowers

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Sat 07/19/08 03:48 PM

MEN like the CHASE! We are hunters. Once you get a guys attention, and you see him in pursuit, play a little "hard to get". JMHO


I agree with this to a point, I dont play hard to get usually, if I want to get rid of them fast. Makes it worse in my opinion, the keep "persuing" regardless of how "hard" u play to get.

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Sat 07/19/08 03:37 PM


I guess if someone I wasn't interested in asked me out, I'd just diplomatically say "no", and that goes for any racedrinker flowerforyou .


same here. its just when i say im not interested in a black guy they interigate me, and keep saying is it because im black, and that makes me feel awkward, its not fair.


If thats the case, then they are just ignorant, and u r not a racist. Just keep it moving, no one deserves an explanation for "no", No means NO. LOL

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Sat 07/19/08 03:35 PM

OOOH I know try this!!!!

thank you but NO!!!
why does it have to be about race????
it really isnt unless you make it so!!!


IMHO sounds rascist to me....


I agree here, its not about race, its about attraction, just not attracted, end of discussion. I dont date black guys either, what does that make me??spock

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Sat 07/19/08 03:31 PM

my wife and will have our fisrt anniversery in two days she in the navy shell be home in aug, bu what im gettin at is we have some hard communication issues and trust issues


Did the issues happen when she went to the navy, or soon after the marriage? Could mean something, like the issues are just hard because you are missing each other due to distance if they started when she went away. If soon after the marriage, maybe its something that you need to seek a marriage counselor for, could be deeper issues.

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Fri 07/18/08 09:38 AM
Thats wonderful, I hope some of the blessings come my way. flowerforyou

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Fri 07/18/08 06:15 AM
Man, i must be young and sheltered, most choose love, but at the moment I would choose financial security. Ive just gotten that the first time in my life and I have never been in love, but I dont even see love in my near future, so I cant be poor for too long looking for it. But I can be secure and not have love??? I may grow out of it soon.

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Fri 07/18/08 06:11 AM
Yeah, most of the guys I'm interested in live in NY (hint, hint), LOLsmitten

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Fri 07/18/08 06:08 AM
Got brown eyes myslef, and would have to agree, all the rest of the brown eyes that have posted her are HOTTIES! I guess i was doing it wrong, im a sucker for a nice pair or blue eyes oops

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Fri 07/18/08 06:05 AM
I only like Iced coffee and iced tea, they would never shut down a starbucks in my town, there are 3 surrounding my apartment building alone. Thank goodness, im not good at making iced coffee at home, but i can make a killer iced chai tea, right out the box, LOL:wink:

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Fri 07/18/08 06:02 AM
Have a ball here!:banana: