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Sat 08/07/21 03:07 PM

IMPORTANT : IM TIRED OF THE GOLD DIGGERS, I WANT REAL PARTNER I TERESTED I REAL HONEST MAN, YES I REAL .BUT DONT INSULT MY ITELLIGENCE, IM NOT LOOKING FOR BODY ,IM LOOKING REAL HONEST WOMAN GAIN TRUST WITH SHOWING HER
SELF AS I WANT TO SHOW MINE." DON'T WANT GOLD DIGGERS"

Very romantic,passionate,loyal, and very easy going person, extremely happy funny guy, always seeing the positive side in live with the FOOT IN THE FLOOR, looking for the love of my live.


UNFORTUNATELY GETTING THE LOVE WE WANT REQUIRES WORK ON BOTH

PARTS......PLUS WE HAVE TO BE THE KIND PERSON THE OTHER WILL

REQUIRE IN TURN.....WHEN WE LEAVE HOME TO FORM RELATIONSHIPS

THOSE RELATIONSHIPS PURPOSE IS TO FINISH OUR CHILDHOOD UNRESOLVED

ISSUES.....WHEN WE DO NOT WORK ON OUR OWN EMOTIONAL HEALTH IN

RELATIONSHIPS THEN WE TAKE THE ISSUES TO THE NEXT ONE.....IN

OTHER WORDS WE ALL HAVE TO BE A WORK IN PROGRESS....WE WILL NEVER

FIND ANYONE SH^T FREE....BEEN THERE,DONE THAT. BEEN THROUGH SAME

STUFF MYSELF. SOMETIMES I GET TIRED OF THE SH^T....BE GOOD TO

YOURSELF,AND GOOD LUCK....

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Sat 08/07/21 12:05 PM
Edited by cleve on Sat 08/07/21 01:00 PM

Hello All ! Looking for some female companionship while on vacation in Playa Flamingo ( not a prostitute or a girl old enough to be my daughter) . It seems all I’m getting even after adjusting my filters are young girls??? Thank you all in advance. Oh , I’m 57 lol


TRY CALLING A TEMP SERVICE.........ESCORT SERVICE WILL DO IT....I

LIKE TO GO OUT AND MEET WOMEN ANYWHERE AND MAKE NEW FRIENDS....ITS

LIKE OPENING A SURPRISE GIFT......

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Sat 08/07/21 12:01 PM

WAY OVER MY HEAD....I HAVE ENOUGH PROBLEMS.......rofl


THERE IS A TIME AND PLACE FOR EVERYTHING.........

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Sat 08/07/21 11:59 AM
WAY OVER MY HEAD....I HAVE ENOUGH PROBLEMS.......rofl

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Sat 08/07/21 10:35 AM
scared rofl scared rofl scared rofl

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Sat 08/07/21 06:26 AM

I believe we live in a world where lack of understand has made it difficult for people to find true love


VERY TRUE...THE PROBLEM IS EACH THINKS THEY HAVE THE ANSWER....WE

ARE ARE INDIVIDUALS WITH DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES AND OF THE

EXPERIENCES THAT ARE THE SAME WE TAKE IN DIFFERENTLY AND

INTERPRET

DIFFERENTLY...QUESTION.....DO YOU THINK YOU ARE ''O,K,'' ? DO YOU

THINK OTHER PEOPLE ARE ''O,K,'' ?.....IT HAS TO DO WITH NOT ONLY

UNDERSTANDING OTHERS, BUT ALSO UNDERSTANDING OURSELVES...EXAMPLE,

ONE WOMEN I WAS TALKING WITH WOULD ALWAYS SABOTAGE EVERY

RELATIONSHIP SHE WAS IN....WE FOUND OUT THAT IN HER HEART SHE

BELIEVED SHE DID NOT DESERVE TO BE HAPPY........UNFORTUNATELY WE

CONCENTRATE ON RELATIONSHIP SURFACE NOISE AND NOT THE REAL

PROBLEM....WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND OURSELVES FIRST BEFORE WE

UNDERSTAND OTHERS.....

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Fri 08/06/21 04:39 PM


I guess the jury has spoken. Women in general are very shallow. I guess humbleness and dignity is out the window. And I'm to make a spectacle of myself and be comfortable being disposable. Y'all get what you deserve every time I see you cry about how bad you have it. It ain't gonna be from me. I'll be a badass quietly. And if anyone wants to try to eat me. They're gonna choke on it. Cuz you'll be biting off more than you can chew. Cuz we men know the most dangerous of us don't have to talk about it.

If you cannot handle answers to a question YOU asked then don't ask questions so you don't waste our time.




SOME GUY'S STARTING GATE POSITION IS VICTIM HOOD......

ANOTHER WELL DONE.....flowerforyou

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Fri 08/06/21 01:13 PM


.... the bad guy will always be chosen over good - girls/woman like that sort of thing - admit it ! enough of this sugar coating - speak the truth!!

Really? It might have been appealing when I was 16 or 14, but you live and learn and get wiser. I know what makes me happy and what does not, and such a guy is not it.
When I see such men they either amuse me or irritate me, and anything in between.

The kind of men that I do find attractive are empowered men and the so called bad guy is not that at all.

So called good guys are not good guys, they're wimps that think they're good guys and whine that women don't want him. Which is logical as such men generally have nothing going for themselves at all.



LIKE YOU SAY EMPOWERED....WELL SAID....

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Fri 08/06/21 12:48 PM


NICE GUY'S OFTEN COME ACROSS AS BEING WUSSY BECAUSE OF

HOW THEY ACT WHEN TRYING TO PLEASE HER......THE REASON IS MOST

GUY'S DO NOT KNOW HOW DIFFERENT THEY ARE FROM THEM. WE REALLY ARE

LIKE FROM TWO DIFFERENT PLANETS.....WE TAKE IN INFO DIFFERENTLY

THEN WE PROCESS IT DIFFERENTLY....HORMONAL PROCESSES EFFECTING

OUR EMOTIONS DIFFERENTLY.

SEX CAN BE A LOT BETTER

WHEN SHE IS NOT INTO THE GUY BUT JUST WANTS SEX BECAUSE SHE IS

THERE FOR HERSELF, AND NOT TRYING TO PLEASE HER LOVE

INTEREST AT THE SAME TIME....

THIS IS MY SHORT VERSION

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Fri 08/06/21 09:20 AM
Edited by cleve on Fri 08/06/21 09:25 AM

How to start a best conversation ever!


THE BEST CONVERSATIONS HAVE THE BEST LISTENERS....


1- REFLECT BACK WHAT YOU THINK YOU HEARD IN YOUR OWN WORDS.IF

CORRECT ASK IS THERE MORE.

2-NEXT VALIDATE....( IT MAKES SENSE TO THEM ) 3-LAST

EMPATHY,,REPEAT BACK THE FEELINGS YOU HEARD......EVERYONE WANTS

OTHERS TO SEE THE SENSE THEY ARE MAKING TO THEMSELVES.....THE

FIRST MISTAKE IS WE TRY TO SEE THE SENSE SOMEONE ELSE IS MAKING,

MAKES SENSE TO OUR OWN SELVES.... EVERYONE WANT FOR OTHERS TO SEE

THERE POINT OF VIEW...AND THEY NEED TO KNOW YOU HEARD THEM

CORRECTLY....AND YOU GOT IT !

ABOUT VALIDATION,,,,, YOU KNOW THERE POINT MAKES SENSE TO

THEM.....SO WE CAN TRUTHFULLY LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU CAN SEE HOW

IT MAKES SENSE TO THEM.....START A CONVERSATION,SIMPLE.. HELLO...

YOU ASKED, MY ANSWER..........

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Fri 08/06/21 07:00 AM

JUST GOOGLE ''DRAMA TRIANGLE'' THAT IS THE RESULT, THEN RESEARCH

HOW AND WHERE IT COMES FROM AND HOW WE ALLOW OURSELVES TO BE IN

IT....ITS THE BASES OF ALMOST ALL FILMS, MOVIES,AND

RELATIONSHIPS....THE SAD PART IS EVERYONE IN THE TRIANGLE WILL END

UP AS THE VICTIM......

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Fri 08/06/21 06:30 AM



All the best Alan. Never settle if there are doubts.


i believe we do settle for whoever fits our script......if a

person's script has doubts, what's normal is to validate those

doubts....in other words we validate our beliefs about ourselves

and others. its a continuous process.....so when ''I'M STILL'' IS

CORRECT........


Cleve ❀. I think Alan was at the edge. He deactivated. Sometimes we give up for a time to reflect. I AM STILL is so important to BE.


ITS SO SAD TO SEE SOMEONE CONTINUE THE WOUNDING OF THEMSELVES

LONG AFTER PERPETRATOR HAS LEFT....

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Fri 08/06/21 06:07 AM

All the best Alan. Never settle if there are doubts.


i believe we do settle for whoever fits our script......if a

person's script has doubts, what's normal is to validate those

doubts....in other words we validate our beliefs about ourselves

and others. its a continuous process.....so when ''I'M STILL'' IS

CORRECT........

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Thu 08/05/21 01:22 PM

Is it advice'd for a guy or girl to leak all his/her secret to his/her partner, when he/she hasn't married to each other yet?


EVERYONE HAS ''HIDDEN AGENDA'S'' EVEN HIDDEN FROM OUR OWN

CONSCIOUSNESS. FOR EXAMPLE A PERSON WITH A STARTING GATE

POSITION OF VICTIM.....THE ANSWER I WOULD SAY IS NO...BE YOURSELF,

AND BE HONEST....ALL THIS STUFF IS A CRAP SHOOT FOR MOST

PEOPLE ANYWAY....EVEN IF YOU GET A LONG GREAT NOW THERE IS NO

GUARANTEE ONE WILL NOT OUT GROW THE THE OTHER.....GOOD LUCK....

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Wed 08/04/21 06:29 PM

I guess this app is an algorithm based people..
in simpler words most of the ID’s are fake 🀷:tone1:β€β™‚οΈπŸ€·:tone1:‍♂️


THERE A LOT OF GREAT PEOPLE HERE....THEY ARE NOT ALWAYS ON LINE ALL THE

TIME....CHILL RELAX AND ENJOY THE SHOW......

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Wed 08/04/21 08:47 AM


ONLY REWARD GOOD BEHAVIOR !!! THE REASON IS ''WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT

US''.. BY WHAT WE EXCEPT OR NOT EXCEPT AND WHAT WE REINFORCE......WHEN WE

EXCEPT BAD BEHAVIOR WE JUST GET MORE ''AND IT WILL ESCALATE''....WHILE ONE IS

SPENDING TIME WITH BAD BEHAVIOR WE MISS OUT ON THE GOOD ONES....GOOD LUCK

AGAIN....

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Tue 08/03/21 02:07 PM
CALL A FRIEND OR FAMILY FOR HELP HOME....

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Tue 08/03/21 01:10 PM
Edited by cleve on Tue 08/03/21 02:04 PM

I don't know why everyone is fake or just looking for sex !!? "Now Days. People today don't want a deep connection and commitment it requires giving up too much and giving too much of oneself, people are selfish especially in society today."!!

Just Someone real and Honest


I HAVE SOME REAL FRIENDS. AND HAVE KNOWN SOME REAL NEGATIVE PEOPLE.....

WHEN CHILD ARE WOUNDED BY CARETAKERS ENOUGH TIMES THE WOUNDING TAKES ON A

LIFE OF IT'S OWN..AS THEY BECOME ADULTS THEY CONTINUE SELF WOUNDING BECAUSE

THAT'S WHAT THEY KNOW.ITS ALL ABOUT THERE BELIEF SYSTEM ABOUT THEMSELVES AND

OTHERS AND THE FAVORITE FEELINGS THEY HAVE NOW......THAT'S WHY SOME PEOPLE

TURN OUT FAKE AND PLAY DESTRUCTIVE GAMES.....THE ONLY PERSON WE CAN DO

ANYTHING ABOUT IS OURSELVES....I HOPE I HAVE BEEN OF HELP...GOOD LUCK....I

WANT TO EXPLAIN TO YOU KNOW WHY ITS SO HARD FOR THEM TO CHANGE...O.K. WHEN

FEELINGS ARE FELT, ESPECIALLY STRONG FEELINGS DURING AN EVENT ITS IS BURNED

INTO PERMANENT MEMORY....

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Tue 08/03/21 10:01 AM


YOUR OS SHOULD HAVE WAY TO SAVE PASSWORD ETC AND DO IT FOR YOU.....I USE

LINUX,

WIN I FIRST SET PASSWORD ECT I HAVE TO SAVE OPTION INFO, I USE SAVE, MY LOGIN


IS AUTO. I CLICK ON ICON ON DESKTOP AND OFF I GO....

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Tue 08/03/21 09:50 AM


ITS NO LAUGHING MATTER FROM EITHER SIDE OF THE FENCE.....