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Tue 01/24/23 09:46 PM
Happiness for me is having peace of mind, not getting sick, not being bothered by toxic people, and when my boys are improving with everything everyday :slight_smile:

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Mon 01/16/23 06:12 AM

What's wrong is that it exudes 100% negativity.
After I'd read 2 sentences I was going "UUGGHH!!!"

Good profiles have a happy upbeat vibe to them, not negative AND CERTAINLY NOT SCREAMING THE NEGATIVE.

So in that sense not surprised it isn't working for you...


sorry. my bad. i was heartbroken from a guy here on mingle when i did that. and yeah, i need to post a fresh one. thanks for the honest feedback :slight_smile:

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Mon 01/16/23 06:07 AM
Edited by Er Lin Da on Mon 01/16/23 06:11 AM


Hi everyone. I receive likes and nudges and messages. I feel like something is wrong in my profile for receiving messages even from a 24 year old guy and guys who calls me "baby", "honey", "darling" and other sweet endearments even on our first chat. I feel uncomfortable with that and always tell them that I prefer to be called by my name and then I loss my interest to know them more because they might only looking for lust and not love. I want to know if there is something in my profile that makes these guys thinks that I am an easy to get girl for them to talk to me that way. Thanks


You do know that you can set your email filters to prevent those that don’t interest you from contacting you?

You can do that here https://mingle2.com/inbox/filters


-where can i find that filter thing?is is available to the cp browser?i didnt installed mingle app on the phone

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Mon 01/16/23 06:03 AM
Yeah. my bad. I was heartbroken when I posted that profile from a guy here on mingle. Still thinking what should i put there.
thanks for that honest feedback :slight_smile:

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Sun 01/15/23 09:43 AM
I'm from Philippines

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Sun 01/15/23 09:18 AM
Edited by Er Lin Da on Sun 01/15/23 09:19 AM
Hi everyone. I receive likes and nudges and messages. I feel like something is wrong in my profile for receiving messages even from a 24 year old guy and guys who calls me "baby", "honey", "darling" and other sweet endearments even on our first chat. I feel uncomfortable with that and always tell them that I prefer to be called by my name and then I loss my interest to know them more because they might only looking for lust and not love. I want to know if there is something in my profile that makes these guys thinks that I am an easy to get girl for them to talk to me that way. Thanks