well..love is life itself..so..we love something or somebody or we don't.. it's always black or white..first you must live that you can love.. first you must love yourself that you can love another person..if you love my dirty socks on the middle of the living room in this case you love me.. because you will collect them with smile on your face..at least somebody is there to leave those dirty socks ..so love is compromise.. tolerance.. ability to not be selfish and supernatural ability not to lie..