Community > Posts By > cindacollins
No, not less of him...unless he let it interfere with his current life, which is kinda what I recently went through. My ex was VERBALLY abused by his ex wife, and it really screwed him up.
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myspace question
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They can right click and save them to their computer.
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If you are truly finished with the relationship and he insists on getting the stuff himself, simply place the items in boxes or black plastic bags and place them in a discreet spot on the porch or around the corner of the garage where he can get to them, tell him through a text where the stuff is and if he cares about the stuff he will be picking it up fairly soon... Tough spot to be in.... Good luck.. I think I will do just this! Thanks!! |
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pack his stuff up and drop it off at mom's as soon as possible.. leagally you may be responsible for his things other wise... and then lose his number all together .. you are right about one thing if he wanted to be in that relationship he would of fought for it.. he ran instead... and you should do the same as fast as you can there ore plenty of sincere people out there.. I know... No, not legally responsible for anything. I have been through this with a roommate before. Just want the control thing to stop. BTW, He won't tell me his mother's address. LOL...I know the vicinity she lives in, but not the house number. Should I neatly box and bag it up, and put it outside my home? |
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Do you..
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...because I like to keep my friends close, but my enemies closer =)
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THE VILLAGE
WTF? The Strangers too! That movie was RIDICULOUS! |
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garage sale lmao, that's classic. Certainly up for consideration. |
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Thanks, that's the same thing I have been getting so far, it's a 'control' thing.
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Hey guys!
Okay, so I made the huge mistake of falling for someone about 3 months after my husband and I separated. He had moved on, but I was still claiming I would remain single. Just have friends with benefits. You know how THAT goes. I was pursued by a man about 3 months ago. Told him I did NOT want anything serious, yet he kept pushing and pushing. Everything was great for a while, we finished each other sentences, had EVERYTHING in common, it was ridiculous really! I know he's always been a semi-depressed person, but as time went by, it didn't get better. Last week, I told him to get his things and get out of my house. He reluctantly did, because he is one of those people who do not know HOW to fight for anything they love or care for. Now, here's the dilemma. He has left a LOT of valuable AND sentimental items in my garage. He went out of town and just kept driving he claims, when he left my place, and keeps telling me he will come get his things, but never does. When he WAS texting me, it was still negative and depressing, but I kind of got the vibe he still wanted to be with me, because he was telling me he loved me, and misses me, and how it's sooo hard without me, but when I would reply and he didn't like what I would have to say, he would go days ignoring me. Anyways, I have pled with him to come get his things, because I don't want to be moving on with my life and all of the sudden he pops back up and all these emotions get carried away, ya know? I've offered to take his things somewhere, get with his mother to get them, or something, but he insists HE wants to get them, what should I do? Any advice? Wonder why he is acting like this? Stringing me along because he knows I will still be here? Or don't want to let go? EEK! |
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Cute dog. Cute girl. Welcome to Mingle2. Always keep this in mind, don't have high expectations, but do not be cynical either. A lot of fun people out there! I'm divorcing as well. Have fun!
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thread of 2000 songs,
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Okay, that was my first pick.
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thread of 2000 songs,
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Jungle life
I'm far away from nowhere On my own like Tarzan Boy Hide and seek I play along while rushing cross the forest Monkey business on a sunny afternoon Jungle life I'm living in the open Native beat that carries on Burning bright A fire the blows the signal to the sky I sit and wonder does the message get to you Night to night Gimme the other, gimme the other chance tonight Gimme the other, gimme the other Night to night Gimme the other, gimme the other world "Tarzan Boy" by Baltimora Love this freaking song. I'm weird, I KNOW. |
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TalkIng MadNess
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Haha, thank you very much! Merry Christmas to you!
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Stole it! I HATE when ya tell someone (and they say the same thing) "I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS, and they STILL pursue you anyways! Geez Louise!
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Huh?
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Waz up!
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He's got a point*
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TalkIng MadNess
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I'm so bored.
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Waz up!
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Thanks for clearing up the meaning behind the infamous "69" on your screenname.
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Glad to hear SOMEONE isn't being too picky =P Just an Asian girl, that's all the man asks!
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Honestly? I think it's an equal trait we both share, but I believe men get caught more than women. Women are vendictive and malicious when we are scorned, and we can be very sly! Men are too clumsy and less graceful to be sly!
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