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Mon 12/15/08 12:32 PM
No, not less of him...unless he let it interfere with his current life, which is kinda what I recently went through. My ex was VERBALLY abused by his ex wife, and it really screwed him up.

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Mon 12/15/08 12:14 PM
They can right click and save them to their computer.

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Mon 12/15/08 12:00 PM

If you are truly finished with the relationship and he insists on getting the stuff himself, simply place the items in boxes or black plastic bags and place them in a discreet spot on the porch or around the corner of the garage where he can get to them, tell him through a text where the stuff is and if he cares about the stuff he will be picking it up fairly soon... Tough spot to be in.... Good luck..


I think I will do just this! Thanks!!

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Mon 12/15/08 11:59 AM

pack his stuff up and drop it off at mom's as soon as possible.. leagally you may be responsible for his things other wise... and then lose his number all together .. you are right about one thing if he wanted to be in that relationship he would of fought for it.. he ran instead... and you should do the same as fast as you can there ore plenty of sincere people out there.. I know...


No, not legally responsible for anything. I have been through this with a roommate before. Just want the control thing to stop. BTW, He won't tell me his mother's address. LOL...I know the vicinity she lives in, but not the house number. Should I neatly box and bag it up, and put it outside my home?

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Mon 12/15/08 11:57 AM
...because I like to keep my friends close, but my enemies closer =)

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Mon 12/15/08 11:54 AM
THE VILLAGE

WTF? The Strangers too! That movie was RIDICULOUS!

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Mon 12/15/08 11:53 AM

garage sale


lmao, that's classic. Certainly up for consideration.

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Mon 12/15/08 11:51 AM
Thanks, that's the same thing I have been getting so far, it's a 'control' thing.

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Mon 12/15/08 11:45 AM
Hey guys!

Okay, so I made the huge mistake of falling for someone about 3 months after my husband and I separated. He had moved on, but I was still claiming I would remain single. Just have friends with benefits. You know how THAT goes. I was pursued by a man about 3 months ago. Told him I did NOT want anything serious, yet he kept pushing and pushing.

Everything was great for a while, we finished each other sentences, had EVERYTHING in common, it was ridiculous really! I know he's always been a semi-depressed person, but as time went by, it didn't get better. Last week, I told him to get his things and get out of my house. He reluctantly did, because he is one of those people who do not know HOW to fight for anything they love or care for.

Now, here's the dilemma. He has left a LOT of valuable AND sentimental items in my garage. He went out of town and just kept driving he claims, when he left my place, and keeps telling me he will come get his things, but never does. When he WAS texting me, it was still negative and depressing, but I kind of got the vibe he still wanted to be with me, because he was telling me he loved me, and misses me, and how it's sooo hard without me, but when I would reply and he didn't like what I would have to say, he would go days ignoring me.

Anyways, I have pled with him to come get his things, because I don't want to be moving on with my life and all of the sudden he pops back up and all these emotions get carried away, ya know? I've offered to take his things somewhere, get with his mother to get them, or something, but he insists HE wants to get them, what should I do? Any advice? Wonder why he is acting like this?

Stringing me along because he knows I will still be here? Or don't want to let go? EEK!

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Mon 12/15/08 11:36 AM
Cute dog. Cute girl. Welcome to Mingle2. Always keep this in mind, don't have high expectations, but do not be cynical either. A lot of fun people out there! I'm divorcing as well. Have fun!

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Mon 12/15/08 11:31 AM
Okay, that was my first pick.

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Mon 12/15/08 11:28 AM
Jungle life
I'm far away from nowhere
On my own like Tarzan Boy
Hide and seek
I play along while rushing cross the forest
Monkey business on a sunny afternoon
Jungle life
I'm living in the open
Native beat that carries on
Burning bright
A fire the blows the signal to the sky
I sit and wonder does the message get to you

Night to night
Gimme the other, gimme the other
chance tonight
Gimme the other, gimme the other
Night to night
Gimme the other, gimme the other world



"Tarzan Boy" by Baltimora

Love this freaking song. I'm weird, I KNOW.

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Mon 12/15/08 11:11 AM
Haha, thank you very much! Merry Christmas to you!

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Mon 12/15/08 11:10 AM
Stole it! I HATE when ya tell someone (and they say the same thing) "I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS, and they STILL pursue you anyways! Geez Louise!

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Mon 12/15/08 11:09 AM
Huh?

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Mon 12/15/08 11:05 AM
He's got a point*

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Mon 12/15/08 11:05 AM
I'm so bored.

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Mon 12/15/08 11:04 AM
Thanks for clearing up the meaning behind the infamous "69" on your screenname.

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Mon 12/15/08 11:01 AM
Glad to hear SOMEONE isn't being too picky =P Just an Asian girl, that's all the man asks!

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Mon 12/15/08 10:45 AM
Honestly? I think it's an equal trait we both share, but I believe men get caught more than women. Women are vendictive and malicious when we are scorned, and we can be very sly! Men are too clumsy and less graceful to be sly!