When I first got divorced I dated a lot, probably just to prove I could. I was married for over 25 years. It slowly changed over time and I slowly dated less and less, don't know how to explain it. I was looking for something, but not sure what. Sound crazy? Probably, but I haven't dated in over a year now. Pandemic probably helped that, but still didn't really miss it until recently. Randomly joined this site a few days ago at a whim. Will be 61 later this year...we'll see how that works out