What you need to realise is that most normal guys are going to seem a bit pushy because they are trying to move things forward and persuade you to meet them. That's not creepy. The real creeps are the time wasters that have no genuine intentions and lead people on.

I chat with a woman on a dating site and things seem to be going well, so I ask her if she wants to meet up for a date. She says no and that she isn't sure about me. "But you said that you like me, so why not?" I say. It can go round and round in circles like this with some of these women for weeks or even months. Both parties start to get annoyed with each other and it ends with the woman saying that the guy was really a creep and the guy saying that the woman was really just a tease.