I'd be amazed (or maybe worried) if anyone ever wanted to go on a date with me......I don't have the problem of how or if people tell me they don't want a second date, as I've never got that far!l

no reaction whatsoever, you have your answer. He likes Bonnie obviously, we've never even spoken.

I bet he's buying an now.

I speak again: Bonnie Mark

But now fess up was an involved???

Already then ... Mark it is ....

I was close ain't I .... had the M right ... phew !!!!

You three are trying to mess with me, aren't you?


My match is Mark!

Like others here I have never heard of this rule .. so was curious about its origin . Most indicators are it was linked to a movie in the 1990’s called “ swingers” ... A group of young men at a bar encourage a recently single mate to ask a woman for her number . He emerges successfully lol and the discussion begins on how long he should wait before calling ..

http://youtu.be/DU3Pk6oDNRU the rules about calling are towards the end of the clip

And this when he attempts to call her ...

http://youtu.be/JV-m9bJTrh8

Obviously a very influential movie at the time

Seems the 3 day rule was more about calling someone you hadn’t yet dated .

Either way .. it is easy to understand the psychological barriers , self doubt and uncertainties some people endure when it comes to dating and attraction . Such barriers are often
grounded in how people internalise experiences and feelings , rather than manipulative psychological mind games . Context is important . Not everyone is confident.

What is clear to me .. if you like someone romantically it is important to be honest about feelings and intention , to show interest and work on building a connection rather than destroying it playing tactical games. Romantic interest can die in three seconds

Bonnie, I think she is sweet like honey.