hmm As a male just dont think you understand females without spending lots of time with many different women. If you date regularly. talk in a attracting and self confident way. have lots of sex. And if you on point with your skill set. Then its time for relationships with the women you really like. then its correct to be loyal to her in the love way. but without an on point skill the relationship will feel empty to her. and ist quite likely to go with other man which has better skillset