Please note this is only my opinion, so take it with a grain of salt. Not here to come off as preachy, but hear me out if you can.

Sometimes after we've been single for a long while, we can learn to appreciate the freedom of it. But we have to look at life with better eyes than the "depressed about BEING single" kind.

I used to be that way. Then over time, it didn't really bother me anymore. I had good friends, a great family, no drug or alcohol addictions, was reasonably healthy for a guy my age, I wasn't tied down to anyone, had a lot of great hobbies and led a well-rounded life. In that time, I learned it's not so bad being single, it all about attitude. Life's more than a relationship status or a label, in my opinion.

To love another, you have to love yourself first, otherwise nobody else can love you. Once I got that coda, that belief down to a science, life was fun again. And I got noticed by a great lady who I now call my sweety.

Im taken and happy, but before that I had to learn to be single....and STILL happy. so, to those of you who are single and unhappy, I can relate, but always remember this:

At point A, you are born.
At point B, you are history.
What happens in between? It's up to YOU.

food for thought, right? This too shall pass.

Have faith in yourself cuz you're awesome and you're the only one who DOESNT know it....yet!

Hoping my post lifted your spirits, ladies and gents!

Take care out there!