I think the part of nice guys (and girls) who claim to finish last are the more naive type ones. If you blindly believe anything that's being said to you regardless of actions, warning signs or hints, you are bound to get into negative situations. There's always someone willing to use others and easy prey is easy prey.

I'm not saying most fall into that category, my point is more about not lumping all 'nice guys' into one.

And maybe she's not ditching you because you're a nice guy, maybe your feet stink or she is creeped out by your 10 cats that you can't live without and can't understand how someone else don't love them the way you do? Or your mother drives them away because no one is worthy of her precious offspring? The list is endless...

Blaming the niceness is like me saying all my past relationships ended because I'm fat. Like that one feature somehow is the root of all evil and otherwise I'm just so darn perfect