Put the following in order of what thier importance are when looking for that special someone.

Personality, common sense, intelligence, physical appearance, sense of humor, spontaneousness

I'll start.......

Common sense,
Personality,
Intelligence,
Sense of humor,
Spontaneousness,
Physical appearance,

Think about it this way. When you meet someone in your everyday life do they have an essay following them around for you to read before you decide to say hello?

Can I not have a little bit of both, a nice person with a bit of a dark side?

I think if you think about the relationship,You may relize all that was wrong and not feel so bad.
j.m.o

just remember any negative emotions you feel

because of someone else's actions

gives them control of a part of your very inner being

you know you do not want to give up control of any part of your inner being (to someone not wanting to be there any longer do you)

just push that controlling emotion away

it is not easy but if you look at it as them controlling you it seems a little bit different

just a thought

but hey

what do i know

Yep. We're all no good dirty lying b@stards. You might want to consider changing to women because none of them ever lie.

talldub said hit the nail right on the head in a nice way,...now im just saying it in a more clear detailed kind of way....

unfortunately for us guys, women run the world at this present time..they have been given so many rights, men have lost all control over everything, we cant even raise our voices anymore cause its abuse...women can throw knives and bottles at us when they get angry, including attacking our cars and trucks yet in the end men still get punished for it..no justice whatsoever....

Today women have received a taste of what man once had before, this is why women are never happy with just one man..its a known fact...they are just as bad as man once was...they realized how powerful the female anatomy really is, and what it can do....

in reality, women today technically never know what they want...they have so much choice and so much of a variety on what they want to make of themselves, including how they want to live.....one morning they wake up wanting a bad boy, the next day they want someone nice and someone to treat them right..sometimes they even try to juggle the best of both worlds..but why is it ok for them to do it, and not men????.....problem is, once women find what they think they want, they dont want it anymore..they get bored quickly and move on to something else..i know more women now that ive ever known who cheat, and its not because men created them to be that way, its cause they are women and they can do whatever they want..

women can pick and chose who they want to be with, when they want to be with them and chose what they want to do with them at any time.... all they gotta do is wear a low cut top, short skirt, show some skin and they can make any man be their little puppet...women today just love attention, but once they get it, they all call us creeps and perverts...

so the system you could say has balanced out...50/50..men had the upper hand before, now the women have a chance to get some payback (enjoy it while it lasts cause this is all a phase, and phases fade)....the materialistic/independant world we currently live in boils down to this...all for one and one for all....everyones been screwed over too much and have lost their shirts in relationships...people just want to mingle and have fun...serious relationships are a thing of the past at this present time it lands on a spot where no one wants to risk anything anymore.......live life, live happy and answer to no one.....

That most men are liers?

Point is for me that: it is all truth- if even for a moment. Truth is belief, faith is the belief of things unseen, and seeing reveals truth.
So' I guess it's as we knew all along-
that truth is continually revealing itself, and that everything- including truth, changes....