Apparently you are mistaken when you claim "Everyone wants to be good looking. Everybody is obsessed with the way they look. They spend vast amounts of cash on..."

I'm not good looking and I don't spend any money on trying to make myself look better. I have gray hair that stays gray. I wouldn't get a boob job, a tummy tuck or any other such cosmetic surgery EVER. I wander out of the house without make-up on, dressed in an old tee and sweats, and I could give a crap what people think of how I look. It's not the outside package that matters, it's what's inside that counts. So please don't say 'everyone'...perhaps you should say 'the majority of people' instead.

Screw making everyone perfect looking...clone the spirit of Mother Teresa or Ghandi and implant that in people if you want to improve the human race. Now that's a pipe dream!

He was only a racist when you brought your political beliefs into the mix. You said you both had amazing chemistry and this could of been a great thing. So appreciating your zeal for Obama and not being for or against the man, you basically threw away a possibly great relationship for a man who you will never have a relationship with nor will he be there or care if yor alive or dead tomorrow, just because he is president. EVERY politician, especially the higher the ladder you go, shows they are NOT who they pitched when getting elected. But this is not about that, it is about racism which from what you tell me is what ended the relationship. We all are different, THAT is where a person knows if they are ready for a real relationship, any relationship, because it is a give and take deal, not a "he has to like everything the same as I do" deal. After all, you dont know if there were things he did not like about you and kept his mouth shut to give the relationship a chance.