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Fri 03/31/17 07:36 PM
Hey guyswaving
816

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Fri 03/31/17 07:35 PM
Edited by SitkaRains on Fri 03/31/17 07:35 PM
In Alaska nope I am keepihg my boots on. Too damn cold to walk around barefoot. I still have 2 ft of snow on the ground

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Fri 03/31/17 07:34 PM
817 dang the gals are doing good

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Fri 03/31/17 07:32 PM
Epic

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Fri 03/31/17 07:31 PM

well, I only have.. like maybe 4 months to live.. what about a fill in?

Dang Green tell it like it isrofl


Welcome to Mingle
Best wishes in your seacj.

How about looking for somthing real and take it from there.

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Fri 03/31/17 04:45 PM
Bar maid

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Fri 03/31/17 03:57 PM
Great topic!!!!
I am constantly reminded of kindness each and everyday.

Whether it is a soft viuce being spoken to someone that is a bit stressed.
The holding of the door patiently while someone is going through.

Someone slowing down and coming to a stop to let ducklings cross a road.

To pick just one act of kindness is too hard!!!!

I am reminded constantly that one small thing can change a persons day.

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Fri 03/31/17 03:50 PM
Eventually

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Fri 03/31/17 03:49 PM
I quilt
Train for a 5K coming up
Pack my house
Mingle on Mingle
Spend time with Pancho

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Fri 03/31/17 02:14 PM

OMG I just meet this guy on other site we have a ton of things in common. He is over a 100 miles away is that considered LDR? I told him he was too far away. He says he like to get away from ranch on weekends.(His job) I'm not moving no way I own my farm. Is it wrong of me to think this is too far. To shut it down right away? He says to at least give him a chance to get to know me as friends first. I'm not looking for LDR. Pickens are slim to none where I live advice anyone?


Well.... dang it when Panch and I met we both vowed no LDR'S for either one of us. And well I have been burning the airmiles 2500 to be exact. Lol
And I knew upfront he would not be the one relocating..
Ask yourself what do you have to lose could be wonderful or a dud...

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Fri 03/31/17 02:07 PM
Hawt!!!!
Freaking Hawt

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Fri 03/31/17 02:05 PM
I have been in a LDR for two years and still going strong. Will be flying out in 62 days for good this time around,
Key things to keep in mind.
1. Keep it real!!!! No fantasies of each other.
2. Communication is a must.
3. Real face to face time. Meaning breathing each others air.
4. Trust.
5. Commitment
6. Realistic Goals
7. Be in agreement of who is going to move etc...
8. Timelines of when that will happen.
9. Have funtimes. Set a side date time whether it is just a game you both can play together.
10. Skype, Viber,something with camera is a must !! Something about having in coffee before hair make up etc puts a touch of reality to the couple.

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Fri 03/31/17 02:04 PM
Edited by SitkaRains on Fri 03/31/17 02:06 PM
Hate double post

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Thu 03/30/17 05:37 PM
Kerfuffle

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Thu 03/30/17 03:29 PM

I understand what the OP is asking.
I'm trying not to sound misogynistic. I believe the OP is referring to cleavage showing, clothing so tight, not leaving much to the imagination. All things women might do to attract a man when single.

And yet how many times have you given a second look to tn6e woman that is in everyday clothes tee shirt jeans little or no make up because she just excudes that va-va-boom.

I go back to a time in Sitka when a guy asked me out a really hawt guy. There was in no way that I was trying to attract. Just got off the fishing charter hair a mess, halibut blood and guts on the leg of my carrharts.

The point I am making is it isnt the clothes that makes the woman it is the woman.

Such a sad thing really when a perdon is trying so hard to be noticed that they arent wearing the clothing the clothing is wearing the person.

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Thu 03/30/17 02:35 PM
I have NEVER EVER dressed for my relationship status.
I dress for me and the occassion.
Lordy that sounds like a lot of work

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Thu 03/30/17 12:22 PM
There isn't a person alive that doesn't have some type of baggage.whether they are 10 or a 100. IMHO

The trick is to learn what it is and make the choice of throwing it away and leaving it in the trash where it belongs or choose to revamp old baggage into something wonderful.

In saying that, I honestly believe that each person needs to learn who and what they are, understanding their personal strengths and weakness be open and honest with whom they are in a relationship with.

In the end it is all about acceptance or not, everyone has a choice. Of how they perceive themselves and others.

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Wed 03/29/17 07:37 PM
What turns me on???
Intelligence
Sense of humour
Communication
That special some kind of spark

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Wed 03/29/17 07:35 PM

Mingle... always entertaining... lol...

Best answerlaugh

Really simple OP
If you are unhappy cut ties and move on

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Tue 03/28/17 08:11 PM
One way