I'm in the same both Jinksb86, but have yet had anybody brave enough to express an issue with me having a little girl nearly 5 and me being gay ... I'm in a relationship these past 14 months with a woman although they adore each other I find I'm being over protective and looking for problems in Their relationship that aren't there,thinking a bit of jealousy maybe on my daughters mind. Everyone has a past and majority of people now a days have kids from past relationships . It's how you as a person portray yourself and your kids. Allow people to see you as a unit and take us as we are or don't take us at all... The right person for you will accept you and your kids as a whole ... Best of luck with it