Mowtown bear...answers you perfectly. From what you infer, you currently have a boyfriend, and he gets angry when you tell him you love this older woman. If you understand what I wrote, I hope it makes you stop in your tracks.Say to your self, oops...I have to rewrite that with better clarity......Me: 3 "girlfriends" before I was 18, girlfriend 4 & 5 (all of driving age) We had fun and all the adult time we could...! Enjoyed each other's company and families. Be respectful, kind, ask her any delicate question..with decency. Like who ever want, if like, turns that corner..."Im in Love,I'm all shook up" love does that to you....etc,etc, most important add infinitum