I am 24 and my girlfriend of 1year is 31 she has two kids girl is 7 boy 6. My girlfriend is still married to the guy that beat her for about 9 years. The kids didn't see much of the violence (she thinks), the boy still misses his father, but they both love me a lot. They had no problem accepting our relationship, never asked questions, they love it when we hug or kiss. They even pout when I leave for work. I guess I'm one of the few who has this luck. I'm really just looking for other couples with kids to kinda hang with.