Hi not new on the site just to the forum really, or back on. Im looking for the quirky people here, the eccentrics, the maxamilists, the book readers, the one man or woman and a dog/cat sort of people for friendship and maybe a connection.

I messed it up me thinks. I thought i was coming in at 80 because thats what the screen was showing and then at the 200s so now I just dont know

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Ive been single for 3 years but emotionally ready for gearing on 1 month now. Not because I was broken or in a bad place but because I wanted to spend time loving myself. And now after 3 years and to the chargrin of my neighbours im ready to let someone else take the reigns.

Sex on its own is just an act, as soon as its finished its just aqward and the well what now? creeps in. But sex with love is totally different, after its omg I could be like this forever, its the holding hands, maybe making some food, going out or staying in its the best feeling In the world thats why they had to give it one of the most powerful names. So sex on its own really could never compare and thats why love should always come first.

I dont even know, I tried the seductive stare, the aqward smile, the dance I think looks like a dead ringer for Beyonce but recently saw a video and its more like a very bad seizure. I am now going to start going down the talking route...how is this?...dont scream im not going to hurt you.

I usually stick to horror or maybe a 70s throwback but I have been watching 56 days and ive rewatched it twice over now, its good I like it, I cant put my finger on something though, the girl, she reminds me of someone, im thinking wreck it ralph the little girl from that. Does anyone who has watched it think that or am I as crazy as the voices in my head say I am

@gravel...I should do that, and thankyou for being nice and actually helpful.

Im going to walk into this room like I walk into work, bloated from my vegan breakfast and with the last puff on my vape blowing out my nose.

I dont know where to begin because im a person that will reply straight away unless Im busy. I believe in showing your true self from the start so it wouldn't be weird to me to have someone message me back straight away. And yes some would say thats clingy but in a world where, nobody wants to cling to anyone anymore, having a bit of cling isn't always a bad thing.

If i put eye lashes on will they blow of in the wind as im going to work, yes its not important but its the biggest issue I have yet today so im just rolling with that right now.

I dont know if true love is real but im really holding out for that gothic interpretation of it, you know what i mean, the overwhelming desire and the reading poetry together, candlelight dinners and letter writing. Now if I dont find that then im just going to have to rewatch bram stoker's dracula and manifest my behined of. Ive come to the realisation that just being you completely maybe will get that true love, as if you keep the fake out then at least you can give it a chance.

I used to believe that age was just a number until I turned 40 and then the realisation hit me hard...I updated my phone and suddenly couldn't use it. I literally had to ask a "young" person to help me. I also dont like clubbing unless I want to not go to the gym. And I call it clubbing still, I dont even know if they still call it that. So yes I used to believe in age is just a number, but you try putting two generations together in a relationship and see what happens. Feeling young is different, I feel "youngish" but I also show my age at times which is perfectly normal. Being attracted to younger or older is ones own preference I just wonder how would that couple navigate the growing gap between them and the changes that would bring. I personally love the age I am at the minute even with all its aches and pains. Now saying all of that, you only live once as we know so doing or being with whomever you want seems like the best idea, and when age becomes an issue then if the attraction or the love is there then get on the surf board and ride the waves.

Thankyou, and that seem like a better idea than just constantly waiting for the 60 seconds before blocking seems like the only way

I love the way I look, I love my piercings, all I can say is if men are scared then its a good job im bi. Im a very content and happy person, and I dont want anybody that judges me on the picture alone. Plus the men that are doing the judging are not exactly in a position to judge Anybody.

Is as hard for everyone as it is for me to find a potential or am missing something. If you are finding it difficult making a connection how are you dealing with it?

How to talk to men and at 43 it's just weird. I'm like bridgette Jones, how can I get better at this so I stop scaring them of.