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Thu 01/16/14 12:42 AM
Everyone has there own opinion and are free to speak there mind, each to there own I say, and forums are good for different options and that's all I'm looking at, lawyers and families are just heartbreakers I know I actually went through that as a child when my parents divorced and that was just the worst, so speaking from experience I will put the needs of my child first before anything else....

As for the child's dad he wanted me to abort this child due to family and religion I said I was going to keep it and just do it, as I don't think it's right thing to do....

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Wed 01/15/14 07:04 AM

This is a social media...far different from a social worker who specializes in adoption or a lawyer who can make sure you get visiting rights. If you are in the USA, lawyers have their fingers in everything. Good luck with your adoption.


I'm in Australia and you can only adopt legally, thank you

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Wed 01/15/14 06:53 AM
Edited by Mbaby1983 on Wed 01/15/14 06:54 AM

You are very generous to think of the baby's needs. Try getting social help or a lawyer, not some nameless folks on the internet.


Is this not "social help"?! And as for a lawyer why would I do that?? If I do go along with this by all means lawyers and papers and so on, but until that decision is made I will seek advice from people as everyone has there own story and life experience and that's the best way to learn on most cases.

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Wed 01/15/14 06:39 AM

Not just happy, but COMPLETE :)

Thank you xxflowerforyou

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Wed 01/15/14 06:35 AM


I know it's not the child's fault by all means and I'm not 100% about doing this but I do feel it's a better decision for the child's sake more then myself , I never ever planned on having children, and all I want is the best for this child an if I can't do that ok sure there are couples out there that are wanting to adopt and can't and are more then willing to love and care for this baby just as much as I would love too


Adoption is a wonderful resource AND a blessing for childless couples.
You've said you want to do whatever is best for the child... NO ONE can tell you how to handle such a delicate choice.
I can tell you this.. DO what YOU feel in your heart! Don't let ANYONE shame you into keeping a baby you feel will struggle with you... on the other hand, A baby's first need is to be in its mother's arms at birth.





Thank you and that reply pretty much sums exactly how I feel like I've said before I would
Love to
Keep and bring up this child but I know he/she will have or be given a better one with someone else, although I would definitely try and keep in contact

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Wed 01/15/14 06:23 AM
Thank you for your kind words kizas it really means a lot Nd also to everyone else that has posted on this topic is a very hard decisions and all areas will be taken into consideration once again thanks you and god bless xx

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Wed 01/15/14 06:15 AM
I know it's not the child's fault by all means and I'm not 100% about doing this but I do feel it's a better decision for the child's sake more then myself , I never ever planned on having children, and all I want is the best for this child an if I can't do that ok sure there are couples out there that are wanting to adopt and can't and are more then willing to love and care for this baby just as much as I would love too

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Wed 01/15/14 06:06 AM
It's a give and take situation as I only want what is best for this child
And if that means giving him or her up too a loving couple/person that can give just as much love and support for this child as I would then is be happy for the babies sake,

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Wed 01/15/14 05:40 AM
There's are many pros and cons to this, and I'm just trying to get my head around what I think would be right for this child, don't get me wrong I'd love to have this child and I'd 100% like it be in his/her life but it just seems too much to do alone

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Wed 01/15/14 05:02 AM
I will keep that in mind, but it's not much easier made with family also :(

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Wed 01/15/14 04:50 AM
Yer that's true thanks it's just hard that's all

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Wed 01/15/14 04:21 AM
Looking to adopt my unborn child, people's thoughts please? tears