Thanks Shy! That's kind of what I thought. Apparently I'm just attracting the wring types. I'm going for the slow lets be friends route and see where things go and the guys are just awful. Seems no respect for women or themselvesfor that mmatter :/

Hi all! I feel like a total dork posting this. Lol. I new to dating in person and online after almost 10 years. Anyway, back when I dated I never put out right away as I was brought up very Christian. Don't get me wrong I Love sex but I like to be committed and monogomus. Anyway after meeting a few people online and at bars, I see that its super normal to bare all and act like a male or female whore to get attention. Please tell me this isn't always the case? What do you expect from a first meeting/date these days? Male and female responses greatly appreciated. :)