that's bad. same prob here, but not an older man though. worst is the man is my friend whom i trusted my whole **** with... kinda having the same type of problem that bothers me every single night..cant stop thinking about her. how is she today? did she ate her dinner? is she okay when traveling from work to home?.. but mines kinda 6 years relationship.. same here 2 weeks from now. i know its kinda hard that you have done all the craziest things for her, but yet it's still not enough for her. just having a hard time here of letting her go. i just want the best for her. i just want to know if she's safe.......