because i was just wondering. and because i am in one. he lives in ohio
and i live in new jersey. and we plan on meeting. the problem is i am
kind of nervous about meeting. cause you hear all these stories on the
news about people meeting online. and how people get kidnaped etc. and
im also afraid we wont have much in common. anyway in order for me and
him to work out he wants me to relocate there. and i really do not want
to. mainly because we dont know eachother that will. and because my
family needs me here. any sugestions

welcome to the site. have fun.

good job. its so true what you wrote.

i know how you feel. being lonely isnt fun at all. in fact it is
especially not fun around the holidays. best advice i could say is maybe
work less hours . and meet people. thats just my opinion.

what i would say is the same meet in a public place. but in my case he
is meeting my parents first. ( cause my parents want to make sure he is
a safe guy etc.) but yeah do alot of talking so you know just about
everything about him . cause thats always the best way to go. and good
luck.

i think it depnds on the person. but then again i do agree that you have
to get together to see if the chemistry is there. so i say a little of
both. if thats possible. cause yes i did fall with someone . but we
never met. and the feelings were defently there though. but yeah i do
think its both. but thats my opinion.

i'll be your friend

im new too and everyone seems so nice .

thanks her name is scarlet i took that pic when we first brought her
home.

im here just looking for new friends thats all.

will i'd say as long as your in love it shouldnt matter

try training pads . or something like that.