I disagree, love can be the most amazing feeling ever but love can also make you want to end your life. Make you want to stop existing. Love can be the most excruciating emotion ever. The worst pain you can imagine and then some. But only those who have had to experience losing love know what i mean. Also, those who say you must have love for sex to be good are mistaken as well. They have never had that electric connection with someone they didn't love. Sexual pleasure is one of the greatest gifts we can give to each other. In no other way can you make someone feel so incredible, if only for a short time. So sex can absolutely be incredible without love and love isn't always a wonderful thing. Just because someone else doesn't love you does not change the fact you love them. But love is not a choice. You don't choose to love someone. You realize you love someone. It's not a choice. It's more an understanding than a choice. Also, love is not exclusive. We are capable of loving more than one person. Think of your kids. You love all of them don't you? Yes you do so you CAN love more than one person at the same time. I think the beliefs we were taught about love and sex are in need of an update because there are a lot of misconceptions in these comments.

Sex is a choice. Love isn't. You don't get to choose who you love. You choose who you have sex with. Love chooses you, like it or not. You don't choose love. While sex is an important aspect of most loving relationships, there is usually far more to loving someone than just they **** your brains out. That does happen but there's usually much more to it than that. And again, it is often an important aspect because sex is primal like eating and sleeping and pooping. It's something we do as a species. In fact, it's biological directive #1 and that's why we'll go without food or sleep or anything else sometimes just for that natural endorphin release. But none of that has anything to do with love.

Love has nothing to do with sex. It often includes sex but it certainly doesn’t have to. I have people that I love that I’ve never considered having sex with. Plus, sex is a choice. Love isn’t. We don’t get to choose who we love. Love chooses us and we learn to live with it, like it or not. If love was a choice we could choose not to love someone. But it doesn’t work like that.