Hey CChristo-
I was really glad to read what you wrote! I have been miffed by the same kind of things from guys. I don't know if this will make you feel better, but i have the same problem. When i first started doing this online stuff I was amazed at how many guys just flat out ignored me when I sent them a message. I couldn't believe they didn't even have the courtesy to say "not interested"! Then I wondered why. What am I doing wrong? Is it because I say i'm curvy or above average rather than fit or athletic? Blah blah....
I have come to the conclusion that people just don't want to take the time to respond if they're not interested. It saves them from hurting someone's feelings by being honest.
What i've decided is this is a numbers game and i'm trying not to let it bother me when I don't get a response. I just try and move on to the next 10 guys!
Wish i had better answers for you, but i can at least commiserate with you!
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