I came looking to date, now I'm just looking to Mingle

I also think, for some, they see men and women saying they want to meet someone nice, then ending up with someone who treats them poorly, and they become the whiner.

It's pretty easy to see why a nice man or woman would wonder about something like that.

I'm simply realistic. Most guys my age want to date younger and prettier girls than me - it doesn't matter how nice I am, or if they say they want to meet a "nice girl" - that alone does not matter.



I totally agree with lu_rosemary --- if you want to be a nice person, just do it - and never expect anything in return.

I consider myself nice, normal and average - looking for a nice, normal, average guy.

Regardless, it's not easy to find a "match" ... I don't really think it has anything to do with being nice.

So - No, being nice does not get the guy/girl ... I don't think being mean does either.

It's luck, timing, willingness to compromise and be realistic. And a whole lot of patience. :)

My two cents ;-)

Sassy, that is absolutely adorable!



Happy & Safe Halloween to all Minglers!

giant city ducks

Good point ... if someone doesn't respond - don't keep texting!

I don't know how it works for the guys, but I've had pretty bad luck so far. The people in the forums are nice, but the ones who contact me - not so much.

Good luck & Welcome

I'm happy enough to open my own doors. I can't make homemade lasagna. Heck, I can't make homemade much of anything --- do cheeseburgers count?

oops - it d00plicated my post...

Hi & Welcome :)

Welcome & Good luck!

If I really like someone, he can't text too much.

If I'm busy at work, I just answer when I can - and he can do the same.

Men seem to get better with age more so than women - so yes, there are a lot of men over 50 that are quite handsome.

I think OP was giving himself a pat on the back, actually.

Oh please make it Saturday!

Procreation aside, does this mean I can collect benefits?

Seriously - some people have way too much free time. This world has so many problems, and THIS is what they focus on....

Too bad - I wouldn't mind some tips. I block, block, and block some more.

I can't report - because I don't know for sure. I guess based on what I've read in the forums, from others - and trust my gut.

Like I've said, I may have blocked someone who wasn't really a scammer, it's just plain hard to tell sometimes.

Meh.

I agree that, it's hard to question someone's choice considering how few choices so many people have today. I still think it's sad, but I don't question her morals or self respect. Again, if there is a market for it [which I find more concerning] - people will do what they need to, to survive.

Someone has too much money if this is what he plans to spend it on. Just saying.

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