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Sat 01/17/09 09:22 PM
Keep being you... Some people will understand and some won't When you least expect it, someone will find you fantastic. an example... I didn't put down my psychology training because I know more people would rather talk to a psychic than feel they are being analyzed.. truth of the matter is that we all analyze each other, but I got trained in it. Wouldn't that make me more qualified...I had a guy who wanted to embarrass me in front of his friends tell me once "I heard your studying that psychology ****, let me tell you, it will never work on me"! I laughed and said, "Of course not Charlie, psychology only works on smart people". Can you say DUH!!!! cause that's what he did as his face turned crimson and all his buddies started laughing at him. Hang in there!!!!

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Sat 01/17/09 09:14 PM
Got married three times... shooting for a fourth if this one doesn't work out.... By the way, the definition of crazy is subjective....

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Sat 01/17/09 09:10 PM
It is a terrible situation you have there.. My prayer is that God's will be done. If it is God's will that your people have survived then That is what I pray for. If something happened for the worse, then I pray that after a mourning period has ensued you find the strength to take an experience like this and use it to benefit others. out of chaos we learn to heal ourselves and know the needs of others in similar situations in the future. I pray everyone you know is alright and I mourn for the loss of the one whoever that might be. May God's hands protect you in this time and protect your loved ones.

with faith and hope,

Cindy

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Mon 01/12/09 09:28 AM
If a black cat crosses your path and your in a car and you don't hit the black cat, wouldn't you consider that lucky for the black cat? I do....

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Sat 01/10/09 12:48 PM
Bi Polar is the new name for manic depression. everyone has ups and downs but what distinguishes normal behavior from bi polar behavior is excessive depression where you can't get out of bed for days or months and then an extreme "happiness" for no real reason. It doesn't matter if your life is falling apart around you and you have no money, you just know that your going to buy that new car anyway, you shop way beyond your means or even if you are on your way to jail, life couldn't be better.. this is the manic side. Sometimes the "happiness" could turn into rage for no good reason. Bi-polar disorder is an axis 1 classification and can be helped. Depending on the extremity of the disorder, cognitive counseling can help most. It teaches you the signs and how to reverse them when you recognize them. Some people needs drugs but that would only be in the most extreme cases and that is dangerous because of dosing issues.

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Thu 01/08/09 07:23 AM
Ummm..... Congress better not bail out any entertainment industry...... The reason being that we barely have enough money to support music, drama and other extracurricular activities in our schools. I think it would do us good for the porn industry to go down anyway. Too many men are starting to discover their prostrate is a G-spot.. But they are not gay.. This does not bode well for females that have to put up with it. sex is getting to damn freaky due to the desensitization of the internet based porn industry and the men who can't find the end of the internet. where are the days when teen males had to look at a national geographic to see boobs, and men had to hide their magazines in the bathroom somewhere. Also men were too embarrassed to ask for the real dirty mags at the counter of a store and now women have to keep up the pace with what the latest porn star is doing. As humans we all like sex so the porn industry is not going away, let's just not be sick about it... I don't think congress is going to bail out the industry... If they do then we need to get a new congress..

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Thu 01/08/09 07:10 AM
First you must know the reason this person is a workaholic. Not think you know but know. Is the boss truly putting pressure on this person, is this person doing what is loved? is this person trying to stay away from home? Is it one of those 24/7 jobs? Is this person trying to keep a job in a bad economy? Once you know the real reason (and that may take stealth mode) then you can figure out whether it is justified to try and make more family time. I am a workaholic. I have worked for all the reasons above in different times in my life. figure out the first question that you should be asking, why is this person a workaholic? Then work on adapting yourself, or finding an interest that will take your workaholic away by their choice. We can only change ourselves we can't change anyone else. We can only inspire.

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Wed 01/07/09 01:31 AM
I never get that bored....

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Wed 01/07/09 12:40 AM
you nailed that one friend

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Wed 01/07/09 12:18 AM
let em fight it out.... we don't have the troops to support Israel... and we have enough problems of our own to contend with... they have been bickering for years.... If we stay out we might get oil. While our crack team of scientists figure out a way to be less dependent on it. oh yeah, i am a registered republican... no safety net!