I get an email from the site stating :-

"5 new people have said that they are interested in meeting you through Mutual Match, but you have not rated them yet." So yet another question, how do I know who they are (without upgrading my account). I assumed, obviously wrongly, that the five would be found within the mutual match section. But there are many more people listed, so I am none the wiser.


I thought I was quite an intelligent person,but this site may be proving that I have been living with a misapprehension regarding the latter, for most of my life.

Thanks for that. I did not realise that pressing maybe did that

But they appear without me liking them, that bit you refer to says if you see a red heart it means they like you and to press it if you like them. The only thing that I am doing is using the mutual link thing, where it shows a photo and you choose no - yes-maybe. I have only been choosing maybe, so I thought, that may show up as a red heart on the ones that I chose maybe for

When browsing the profiles I notice that some of them have the Red heart showing. Does that mean that, that person 'likes' me and if I press that Red heart, does that tell them that I like them. Also I get no message saying that these Red hearts have been pressed.

Thanks in advance

Thanks, you too.

New to the site. I am in Brittany (Landudec) from May to October every year and it would be nice to have some female company for activities, meals out etc. I enjoy my own company, but after so long even that becomes a little monotonous So if any ladies would like to take a chance...............

Gwyn