I think you are in the wrong place, mate. I am just hanging around because I have paid for the bloody thing, and feel that I am stuck, so might as well offer some free advice. Many profiles here are fake. I would dare say that there are boys behind these fake profiles. Many of them can´t write english, which makes it more difficult to communicate. Many ladies are already married and are just looking for someone to chat with, but they answer with yes, no and OKji.

Ladies, I must say, your talent for mysterious silence is impressive. You like the profile, show interest, maybe even send a wink—but when it comes to actual conversation? Radio silence. Or, if we’re lucky, a thrilling “yes” or “no.”

Look, I get it—you’re bold enough to be here (bravo!), but if you’re too shy, bored, or undecided to actually talk… what’s the point? This isn’t a museum—no need to admire from a distance.

So if you're ready to engage like grown-ups—with full sentences and maybe even a sense of humor—I’m all ears. If not, no hard feelings. Just don’t hover like a ghost at the party. Boo.