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Fri 01/30/09 06:10 PM
Edited by bemorelikecarlos on Fri 01/30/09 06:12 PM
thanks for all the advice



We met at a skatepark. She watched me skate for like two hours (youtube.com/bemorelikecarlos)and I found it wierd because women are like dolphins, they travel in packs and when you find them alone.."Houston we have a problem"


At first we just appreciated our differences and things in common then she tried to coach my character by telling me how I should have said this or done that...


That is when I started treating her like a defendent and cross-examining her and doing that only gave light to high dishonest and hypocritical she was


In the end she hung up on me and told me she was threw and didn't want to talk to me anymore....10days later she wants to start over but its too late now

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Fri 01/30/09 04:56 AM
My name is Carlos

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Fri 01/30/09 04:55 AM
It all depends on the guy. If he is looking to have sex with you then leave you then he is going to look at your physical features only because that is what he will use to try to determine whether he wants to pursue a sexual encounter, but a man who wants to actually be with you will be attracted to the things about you that cannot be seen, but heard and felt.


I like women who remind me of myself

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Fri 01/30/09 04:51 AM

:smile: What are some ways to forget someone?:smile:


Get rid of all the emotional attachments you two established. Get rid of everything that reminds you of them, it sounds easy but it can be very difficult depending on the situation.



Convince yourself that it would have never worked no matter what you did


Get your rehab on.
(replace the void they left with objects)

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Fri 01/30/09 04:47 AM
Edited by bemorelikecarlos on Fri 01/30/09 04:47 AM
I'm not only looking for outer beauty, but she fell short in many ways, but what made me overlook her short comings were her looks. But looks aren't the only thing worth considering. She is only 19 and I am 24.


My friends tell me to stay away from her because she is using me.Basically if I had no car we'd never see each other. If I had no money we'd never go out. She has this technique of complaining about something to me until I get it...or mentioning something until I ask her if she wants it. At first I dealt with it because I figured she'd change and get a job or get ambitions from somewhere but it just didn't happen.

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Thu 01/29/09 08:10 PM
attentive, mellow, honest and compassionate

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Thu 01/29/09 08:04 PM



Any Cute Guys Out There, In Florida, That Have A Sence Of Humor Or Love Too Talk


I love to text

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Thu 01/29/09 08:02 PM
just kidding but I am in such a good mood and I feel like talking

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Thu 01/29/09 08:00 PM
yummy

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Thu 01/29/09 07:59 PM
I heart Jacksonville

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Thu 01/29/09 07:58 PM
Check me out and tell me what you think

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Thu 01/29/09 07:56 PM
Once you realize you are willing to deal with the consequences of your actions.

for example let's assume you are awesome in bed...if that is the case then the woman is going to want to see you more and you might get overwhelmed by the attention so you had better be ready for the "EAGLE EYE"

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Thu 01/29/09 07:52 PM

Well gee, if I had no car,license or job or goals and my boyfriend was still willing to take me out all the time, I'd be apologizing and kissing your a$$ too.

In other words, she was using you the entire time, and you fell for it hook, line, and sinker all because you were captivated by her looks. At least now you know better, so hopefully you'll do better.

As for the honesty thing, I really don't see anything wrong with how you did it. I just think she was trying her best to BS you in so many different ways, and once you called her out and she was busted, she got mad. Oh well. ohwell


thanks alot...your are an incredible human being and I hope you live to be 100years old and hit the lottery

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Thu 01/29/09 07:50 PM
sweetheart you betrayed his trust and disrespected him. Violated his privacy and also disrespected yourself by begging...you are too good to beg anyone honey. cry your tears and watch some Dr.Phil

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Thu 01/29/09 07:47 PM
Pay it no mind....women can't say exactly what they want because they don't know themselves

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Thu 01/29/09 07:45 PM
I like people who remind me of myself. Witty, sarcastic and over analyzing meticulous book lovers. Also people who are spontaneous and who do things on a whim that they may never repeat or admit to

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Thu 01/29/09 07:40 PM
Edited by bemorelikecarlos on Thu 01/29/09 07:42 PM
Thanks for all the advice friends.


As far as being mean to women I have an excellent memory so if a woman attempts to lie I will have fun with it. She hated that

for example when we met she said she was a vegetarian then months later asked me to take her to KFC...she got chicken and right when she was about to put it in her mouth I told her that everything she ever said to me had to have been a lie if she was willing to lie about something as small as eating habits...she threw the food away

I like to use peoples words and phrases in different contexts. I will say something you say exactly how you say it so you notice how it impacts people and stop it. She hated that


The last time we talked I told her I don't want to hang out with her on Monday because we hung out all day Sunday and she started telling me why I had no choice, then I reminded her that there are 6 billion people on earth and I am only one of them so she can shop around if she wants.


She told me to never speak to her again and hung up on me, but called an hour ago apologizing but she hung up on me 10days ago

She has no car,license or job or goals and she expects me to take her out everyday and to me that is just lame. She is soooo beautiful, that is why it lasted this long


Help me understand yall?

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Wed 01/28/09 06:26 AM
I've been told I am insensitive because I don't want to be with that someone everyday.

I've been told I say things that were better left unsaid but I see it as being completely honest

I've been told I am this but can you all help.

My girlfriend of 5 months just dumped me and I want to know how to be a better boyfriend for next time.