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nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Tue 04/08/08 01:28 AM
tell me guys, how would youd deal with a person who tells you the main reason when they cheat on you is because you are not sexy enough....

chachacha Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 409	Tue 04/08/08 01:30 AM
tell me guys, how would youd deal with a person who tells you the main reason when they cheat on you is because you are not sexy enough.... i will tell you as a woman to find someone else . . . if you are not now . . . you never will be and it is still no reason to cheat.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Tue 04/08/08 01:30 AM
avoid them forever or as much as possible.... tell them that the reason u dont feel/act verry sexy is cuz they were never worth the trouble!!!

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Tue 04/08/08 01:31 AM
well ive found the easiest way to deal with guys like that is just to give them a little smile and walk away

chachacha Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 409	Tue 04/08/08 01:32 AM
moderator edit i was told that for 13 years straight that i was ugly too and that i should change my personality cause no one liked it . . . NOT SIMPLE . . JUST WRONG. be truly yourself and you will have sex appeal

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 04/08/08 01:34 AM
tell me guys, how would youd deal with a person who tells you the main reason when they cheat on you is because you are not sexy enough.... lmaoooooooo is that his excuse??? A man or woman who cheats, cheat because of their own self esteem issues!!! By telling you they arent sexy enough they are projecting....their own inadequacy.

nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Tue 04/08/08 01:34 AM
been with the guy for 12 freaking years and now he is telling me that ... after 3 kids! Imagine..????!!!! well ive found the easiest way to deal with guys like that is just to give them a little smile and walk away

link97my Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 6798	Tue 04/08/08 01:34 AM
tell me guys, how would youd deal with a person who tells you the main reason when they cheat on you is because you are not sexy enough.... I don't think Dora is sexy but the woman standing next to her is.......

nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Tue 04/08/08 01:35 AM
I completely agree !!! Cheers babe!!! tell me guys, how would youd deal with a person who tells you the main reason when they cheat on you is because you are not sexy enough.... lmaoooooooo is that his excuse??? A man or woman who cheats, cheat because of their own self esteem issues!!! By telling you they arent sexy enough they are projecting....their own inadequacy.

nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Tue 04/08/08 01:36 AM
AAAWWWWWWWW .... that's sweet !!! thanks dear tell me guys, how would youd deal with a person who tells you the main reason when they cheat on you is because you are not sexy enough.... I don't think Dora is sexy but the woman standing next to her is.......

link97my Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 6798	Tue 04/08/08 01:37 AM
AAAWWWWWWWW .... that's sweet !!! thanks dear tell me guys, how would youd deal with a person who tells you the main reason when they cheat on you is because you are not sexy enough.... I don't think Dora is sexy but the woman standing next to her is....... Your welcome hun.....

JaceKnows Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 5110	Tue 04/08/08 01:37 AM
I'd @#$%^ a doughnut if it told me I was sexy enough... I suspect there's much more deeper issues than "you aren't sexy enough", either with him or with both of you. There usually is. (I'm assuming you're asking because it happened to you). Get away from that as fast as possible. It's emotional abuse. BOL to you!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 04/08/08 01:38 AM
Sounds like he is going through male mental pause How old is he??? 40??? Thinks he can get 20 year olds????

laurieannk367 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 94	Tue 04/08/08 01:38 AM
I think thats a crock full of you know what. He met someone else. Men lie, and cheat and walk all over us, and we let them. We have to stop it Ladies!! He wasn't worth your time, tell him he's not Man enough to handle your sexiness!

link97my Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 6798	Tue 04/08/08 01:40 AM
I think thats a crock full of you know what. He met someone else. Men lie, and cheat and walk all over us, and we let them. We have to stop it Ladies!! He wasn't worth your time, tell him he's not Man enough to handle your sexiness! YES WOMAN POWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Tue 04/08/08 01:41 AM
He is actually 42 dating 20 year old girls!!! Sounds like he is going through male mental pause How old is he??? 40??? Thinks he can get 20 year olds????

nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Tue 04/08/08 01:42 AM
I'll tell him that !!!! thanks dear........ I think thats a crock full of you know what. He met someone else. Men lie, and cheat and walk all over us, and we let them. We have to stop it Ladies!! He wasn't worth your time, tell him he's not Man enough to handle your sexiness!

nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Tue 04/08/08 01:43 AM
THanks Jace... You are a sweetheart !!! I'd @#$%^ a doughnut if it told me I was sexy enough... I suspect there's much more deeper issues than "you aren't sexy enough", either with him or with both of you. There usually is. (I'm assuming you're asking because it happened to you). Get away from that as fast as possible. It's emotional abuse. BOL to you!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 04/08/08 01:44 AM
ya they will get bored of him...... At that age they just want him for his $$$$.........and well sex is payment yanno???? The best revenge???? Look soooooooooo good that he cant stand it!!! Date alot of interesting people........go out and have fun!!!! And realize that he is not good enough for you!!

JaceKnows Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 5110	Tue 04/08/08 01:44 AM
Thanks Jace... You are a sweetheart !!! Shhh... don't tell anyone! I have a rep to protect! (=