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Topic: why is it that
dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 06:45 AM
Women are attracted to a man who is confident in his identity. When a guy is looking, we know it and stay clear. We see you as a wolf. It's like we have radar. When we know you are looking for a woman it make's you seem desperate, ergo, weak. Sorry but, that's how it is. I think that's so true...with the exception of the confident wolf. This magnificent beast is on the endangered list. well i am that confident wolf. im also aware of my enviroment and thats why im trying to be smart about this. I think you could lose the...wanting to get married again ...phrase. That alone could label you a wife hunter. To discuss it in emails or forums is different, but in a profile it reads like a big red ad! No gal wants to think you're with them because you're filling a position. I'm not saying that's what you're doing...just suggesting that's how it might come off.

DMACKD83 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 313	Wed 04/09/08 06:54 AM
Women are attracted to a man who is confident in his identity. When a guy is looking, we know it and stay clear. We see you as a wolf. It's like we have radar. When we know you are looking for a woman it make's you seem desperate, ergo, weak. Sorry but, that's how it is. I think that's so true...with the exception of the confident wolf. This magnificent beast is on the endangered list. well i am that confident wolf. im also aware of my enviroment and thats why im trying to be smart about this. I think you could lose the...wanting to get married again ...phrase. That alone could label you a wife hunter. To discuss it in emails or forums is different, but in a profile it reads like a big red ad! No gal wants to think you're with them because you're filling a position. I'm not saying that's what you're doing...just suggesting that's how it might come off. great advice!!!!!!!

DMACKD83 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 313	Wed 04/09/08 06:59 AM
Women are attracted to a man who is confident in his identity. When a guy is looking, we know it and stay clear. We see you as a wolf. It's like we have radar. When we know you are looking for a woman it make's you seem desperate, ergo, weak. Sorry but, that's how it is. I think that's so true...with the exception of the confident wolf. This magnificent beast is on the endangered list. well i am that confident wolf. im also aware of my enviroment and thats why im trying to be smart about this. I think you could lose the...wanting to get married again ...phrase. That alone could label you a wife hunter. To discuss it in emails or forums is different, but in a profile it reads like a big red ad! No gal wants to think you're with them because you're filling a position. I'm not saying that's what you're doing...just suggesting that's how it might come off. great advice!!!!!!! PROFILE HAS BEEN CHANGED

froglittlesis Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 776	Wed 04/09/08 07:02 AM
You say you are not in a hurry or desperate on your profile. Slow down then. When love is ready to find you it will until then just relax and have fun with life and where it takes you. Who knows when you least expect it bamm there it is!!!!!!

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 04/09/08 07:34 AM
1)Confident 2)NOT NEEDY OR WHINY 3)Fun to be around 4)assertive 5) Genuinely loving and respecting women is also quite helpful

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Wed 04/09/08 08:21 AM
possibly, you are spending more effort, time, to your profession....can you say you devote the same energy to your personal life as you do you career????? i think if you did...you would have similar results.......Balance..........