r we ever goin 2 find that perfect 1 or is ther even such a thing

Wow?? I can dream....

baby girl I sure could use you in Dallas TX

i guess it all depends on exactly what you are looking for. if there is
a long list of specific qualities that you want and don't want then some
people have to compromise on the small stuff but i definitely think that
there are plenty of good people left out there that are waiting to meet
someone. even if you were to find the perfect person for you there would
still be problems now and then, it's only natural

I THINK SO BUT IT TAKES TIME.

no you are going to die alone

Hon, PLEASE don't take Steve's comment to heart. That's just his sense
of humor, and you'll find that out if you stick around long enough.

You're still young ~ enjoy it! Talk to people, network with your
friends and THEIR friends, smile when you're in your car at a stoplight
(it makes everyone wonder what you're thinking!), smile while standing
in line (grocery store, music store, bank, where ever), join online
groups like this one!

The "friend" of your friend may be him, you just never know. But
smiling and making direct eye contact will open doors for ya. It'll all
work out ~ in due time.

lol, you are ruining my "schtick" ;_;

I've learned that love doesn't happen over night. To find that one true
love you have to search hard at times. Give it time and when you least
expect it it will happen.

Does it really matter? I mean you can be the nicest,guy have a job
not,a woman beater and not do drugs. And still it seems like women want
a guy that makes $200,000 a year. And treats them like a pile of shit.
To those women I say haaaaa! got what you wanted and deserved. So to
answer your question "NOOOO"

I think there is someone out there for everyone. You should just relax,
go about your life, meet people, have fun and just let it happen. You
will know when you've found the one for you.

i only asked bec i just gave up about a yr ago bec i have
been lookin 4 that 1 guy since i was old enough 2 like guys and still
haven't found him . i thought i did 1nce and i married him but that
lasted 6 months after we got married i have never really been able 2 let
sum1 in agin if they get 2 close i get scared and find reasons 2 leave
b4 they leave me its crazy i agree and i know that i am doin it but its
like i can c myself doin it but i can't stop myself

Yeah, it's out there, you just have to love yourself first. Who's gonna
love a needy person? Not even another needy person, that's who. Some
times we're just impatient, and don't want to put in the time it takes
to get what we really want, so we settle. Some times we are just to
young, emotionally, mentally or even actually physically. Just relax
and let the relationship naturally mature. You know, as the old, old
folks use to say, "Just Let It Du What It Du". Don't try to force it.
Love your self first and if you don't, then learn to. No!!! it's not
easily said than done. Just take the time and effort to just start.
I'll bet cha, you'll have to beat them off with a stick. Why do you
think most women fall in love with "Nurds", because we saw "REVENGE OF
THE NURDS". No, because that person found something in themself and it
turned out to be sexy, it was confidence.

i think steve is pretty damn funni if u ask me lol.. sense of humor is
the best thing to look for now a days if u cant lighten a subject theres
no point of talkin.. but sweetie u arent gonna die alone.. ull find sum1
trust me i was with the same guy for 4 years he passed away last
december i havent been with sum1 since i know ill find sum1 but im not
gonna go runnin lookin for it let it come to u

i can be the special someone for somebody

that is kinda crazy because what makes you think that they are gonna
leave you? you seem like a nice person you just have to give it a chance

i agree. there are many guys in the world that are looking for a girl
but are scared also because they have been hurt as well. for me for
instance i rather bliss email me so i can share the details but my ex
really fucked my head up bad. for another example i have always been
turned down by girls i ask out and so i dont try really as hard as i
should to make a girl see me for the real me. i am scared that i will
get turned down again. call me chicken but there is a girl on here i
really would like to meet and get to know cause i like her and would
like to date her but i am to scared to tell her cause i don't want to
scare her with telling her so quick.

I think there is someone out there for each and everyone of us we just
have to find the right one. From what I hear you will really know when
you do find him or her you just have to stop trying so hard.

it's not so bad being single and i would rather invest my time to
finding the right one and being single than investing my time into the
wrong one, it just ain't worth it

I hope so. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.