Topic: Rant / help?
Army_Strong's photo
Mon 04/21/08 11:15 PM
So, like the topic says.. It's a rant but I am more than happy to take REAL advice. Soo, yeah without any further adu lol.
I find it harder and harder to get over this and I'm about at wits end. For some reason everytime I get into a relationship, I fall for the person WAY too fast. And, because of that and the fact that I'm a nice guy. I get hurt a lot. I can't turn either off. I'd love to just be an as* all the time and try to date women that way. Nothing special, no romance just stupid sh*t to be with someone. Or feel that someone wants to be with me. I dunno, either would be fine. But, I'm not that person. I can't walk up to someone and be like "hey sexy nice shoes wanna *uck? Scary thing is one of my friends who is bigger than me and uber immature picks girls up like that. I can't do it. I can barely start a conversation. Soo, long story short.. Anyone who knows how I can change any of the things mentioned.. Feel free. Thanks for reading this btw. I seriously need some help.
-Don

DeadlyAddiction's photo
Mon 04/21/08 11:16 PM
Just be yourself...
When the time comes you will find her :heart:

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Mon 04/21/08 11:19 PM
ohhhhhhhh you want a**hole lessons???huh

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Mon 04/21/08 11:22 PM
Edited by Totage on Mon 04/21/08 11:23 PM

So, like the topic says.. It's a rant but I am more than happy to take REAL advice. Soo, yeah without any further adu lol.
I find it harder and harder to get over this and I'm about at wits end. For some reason everytime I get into a relationship, I fall for the person WAY too fast. And, because of that and the fact that I'm a nice guy. I get hurt a lot. I can't turn either off. I'd love to just be an as* all the time and try to date women that way. Nothing special, no romance just stupid sh*t to be with someone. Or feel that someone wants to be with me. I dunno, either would be fine. But, I'm not that person. I can't walk up to someone and be like "hey sexy nice shoes wanna *uck? Scary thing is one of my friends who is bigger than me and uber immature picks girls up like that. I can't do it. I can barely start a conversation. Soo, long story short.. Anyone who knows how I can change any of the things mentioned.. Feel free. Thanks for reading this btw. I seriously need some help.
-Don


You need to realize there's a difference between "nice guy" and nice person.

Stop being a "nice guy" and stick with being a nice person.

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Mon 04/21/08 11:23 PM
ooooh i could give as*hole lessons drinker

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Mon 04/21/08 11:27 PM
hahaha jt youre too nice!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 04/21/08 11:30 PM

hahaha jt youre too nice!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



nuh huh,i can be an as*hole too drinker

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Mon 04/21/08 11:31 PM
Show me how you can be an a hole!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

Jtevans's photo
Mon 04/21/08 11:33 PM
ok give me a few to look it up in my as*hole manual

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Mon 04/21/08 11:34 PM
tick tock tick........laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 04/21/08 11:36 PM
shush....there's alot of pages to look through

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Mon 04/21/08 11:40 PM
<----puts on the Jeopardy music........dooooooo do dooooooooo do doooooooooo do dooooooooooooo doooo do dooooooooo do dooooooooooooooo do do dododolaugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 04/21/08 11:42 PM
ok got 1


it says here if you can talk a woman into doing it in the butt,don't ease it out.pull out real fast.


being i've never done that,i don't know if that's true.can anyone confirm this?

Army_Strong's photo
Mon 04/21/08 11:50 PM

ok got 1


it says here if you can talk a woman into doing it in the butt,don't ease it out.pull out real fast.


being i've never done that,i don't know if that's true.can anyone confirm this?


HAHAHAHA wtf. It's a one way street man. I don't mess with the poop shoot lol

Knightime's photo
Tue 04/22/08 01:15 AM
The fact is people dont want what they can have , you love with all your heart and you need to use some of your mind , put yourself in there shoes when you think there is a problem .
would you want someone that just gives you whatever you want , there is no challenge to it . and if there is no challenge just like anything it will begin to bore you and then its game over .
always leave a little of yourself hidden , suprize them at the least exspected time . your a good guy dont let life and its BS change that ... just learn to play the BATING GAME ... good luck to you ....

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Tue 04/22/08 01:20 AM

The fact is people dont want what they can have , you love with all your heart and you need to use some of your mind , put yourself in there shoes when you think there is a problem .
would you want someone that just gives you whatever you want , there is no challenge to it . and if there is no challenge just like anything it will begin to bore you and then its game over .
always leave a little of yourself hidden , suprize them at the least exspected time . your a good guy dont let life and its BS change that ... just learn to play the BATING GAME ... good luck to you ....

one more thing you just told us about it , i think most woman would respect that conversation and see you for what you are .
dont think ..... " JUST DO iT "

Army_Strong's photo
Tue 04/22/08 01:41 AM


The fact is people dont want what they can have , you love with all your heart and you need to use some of your mind , put yourself in there shoes when you think there is a problem .
would you want someone that just gives you whatever you want , there is no challenge to it . and if there is no challenge just like anything it will begin to bore you and then its game over .
always leave a little of yourself hidden , suprize them at the least exspected time . your a good guy dont let life and its BS change that ... just learn to play the BATING GAME ... good luck to you ....

one more thing you just told us about it , i think most woman would respect that conversation and see you for what you are .
dont think ..... " JUST DO iT "


I don't not argue lol. I just don't argue about stupid things. Like who's going to hold the remote control to my tv, or DVD player.. But, when it can't be hashed out rationally.. Well lol