Saturday, September 01, 2007

A {FAITHFUL} person, are we hard to {FIND)? {THE ANSWER IS IN THE MESSAGE}
Current mood: pleased
Category: Romance and Relationships

The true meaning of the subject above is too search for the reasons that may cause one to astray or to {ESTABLISH} who may be faithful or not. {A FAITHFUL PERSON}, one that only eyes for the one they are with. Sincere and True love is a couple willing to {STAY TOGETHER} for the rest of there lives. Why is it so hard to find someone faithful or willing and able to bestow there heart and love. Is it because of the following reasons: {1} Because it's hard to find some one these days that are not into vanity, or themselves; So much into themselves that they want some one that's just like them, even look like them, meaning the same sex. Does anyone {HAVE} an answer for that type of unfaithfulness? {2} The {SEX}, maybe not enough or too much or just the need for {VERITY}. {3} They may just get bored too quick {WITH THE SAME PERSON}, not being able to {BE} with just one. Maybe going back to verity factor. {4} Argumentative, then the need to be consoled, other than you. {5} Meeting some one new due to a lack of being {HAPPY}. {6} Lack of {COMMITMENT}, or not {MARRY} the common law spouse in order to receive government services, disabling the chance for the other to be official in {LOVE}. {7} Babies father/mother, the need to go back "for the child's sake!" or lust even after there unfaithfulness or yours now breaking the heart of the one your with after their accepting your child. That's not right. Maybe the babies father/mother wasn't untrue, you think it's right for you to break a heart especially if they have a child with you. It's not right. That I guess, was just to name a few examples of the unfaithful or basic main general reasons for being an unfaithful person.
Refer back to the basic reason for each as I Go through the Seven named unfaithful types of people or reasons, in short. {1} Vanity may = The need to hang out, being with several people while knowing they look good. Help us if it's a male that thinks he looks better than his woman. Especially if they hang out too much without you once or twice a week, "Girls/Guys night out". If they love sex and love to hang out, there vanity may not be just with you. {2} Verity may = The same thing as 1, If they have a verity of Friends with the same concept. If there never satisfied or always complain about what they need or don't have, they have the need for verity and may get what they want but not with you. {3} Being bored= Maybe the need for excitement but not necessarily with you. If they speak of such then there crying out that they need fun or a change in their life. Give it to that person before someone else does. {4} Argumentative=Unfaithfulness. Micheal Basden said it best and wrote the book on it. "If a woman always argue with her man, she doesn't respect her man, If she doesn't respect her man, she cheats on him" That's the same concept for a man. Need I say more. {5} Non Happiness=Loneliness, usually same as 3 They may already be with someone else and is unhappy due to their guilt, if they have one. The last one but not least. {6} No Marriage= Lack of commitment. I don't care how many years after seven, for any reason, A real couple that Loves each other, marries each other. Most common law marriages feel they can do what they want "Unfaithfully" because they believe they are not cheating. Think about it. {7} Babies Mother/Father = Depends on the person. If that person is a genuinely good hearted Faithful person, man or woman, they will love the one there with and accept the child as much as the person their in love with. You have to love the child in order to love the person. Why should you accept their child and they don't accept yours. Is it fair, does it make any sense. I love my son, I'm a single parent, I don't care how fine you are, if you can't accept my son, then you can't accept me. Do you think it's right to break some ones heart, by leaving you to go back to their babies blood parent. No it not. Just because he or she made the child doesn't make the the parent, it only makes them the Donner. Especially after you had or they moved on in life. This is why so many men today are scared to get with so called " babies kids" because they are afraid to get hurt. Or their just making babies, paying child support and being broke all the time playing the Squirrel trying to get a nut. The women just stay to themselves, don't care and do them or become the man in another type relationship.
Recapping 1-7, {Vanity} people, if you see the signs listed above, be careful, "Aids is real", You don't want to catch that or any other thousand of names. So if your partner or spouse hangs with you most of the time and you trust were they are when they are not, then your OK as long as communication is the key with that person. If not then it's the opposite and dangerous for you. {Verity} is the spice of Life and Death. As stated before, Verity is the same as Vanity because If their gorgeous, they have more Choices. More Gorgeous means More Choices as to Vanity= more Verity. I'm not saying look for an ugly duckling for faithfulness, It's their personality that should count. {Bored} people needs Excitement in their live, look for the sign, give them choices or a verity of things to do with you or the family. If their boredom continues to exist, talk to him or her and tell that person how you fell and that you don't want to loose them but if there is anything they need to tell you, not to waist your time and explain there feelings to you. Of-cause this is after several attempts of trying to have fun. Note, it may be too late if you take too much time to wait or allow the to become board. {Argumentative} people, no need to repeat this one, just don't waste your time with them. If they didn't start that way and all of a sudden they do and your married, seek counseling and hope it's not too late. {Non happy} people are sometimes the same as board. They have the same traits as a very serious or a lack of humor type person. Watch out for the sign, Drama people, always in trouble people, "Jerry Springer people" all have the same thing in common. If you can change the scene and go out and show or just give lots of fun to your mate, that might work. If they try and argue, make a joke out of it while trying to correct comment. If they Don't respect what you say, then it's too late. In four words, counseling or move on. {Lack of Commitment} people, If your down with "o.p.p." or other peoples property, check your self every month because if you allow him or her not to get married, your doing it to yourself. Unless you like free bees, I say no more on the common law subject. {Babies Mother/Father} Look, we need to just stop a minute and think of our own family members, I have a sister that has a daughter. I think about how she was hurt and say to my self, I would never do what happened to my sister, a broken heart and now a single parent. If you as a man or woman, have a family member that's a single parent, you need to say to yourself, I wouldn't want to hurt your mates feeling just like you wouldn't want any one to hurt your brother or sister feelings as a single parent.
When you find that good man or good woman {BE FAITHFUL YOURSELF} Life is short. "It's your move, make it count in life"
{AND} Stay true to others as you would want for yourself.
These conditions are surely not a reflection of or connected to me but I can say through the years, I've spoken to and helped many friends in these situations. I've even fell victim to one of my given scenarios during my own former marriage.

I'm sure there will be rebuttals to 1 or even 6, a perfect example of an unfaithful person.
"{GOD} Bless you all, especially the faithful ones!"

What's your oppinion about my topic, do you agree?

You must have patience and a good attention span to read my TOPIC! ExpertWilliams.

wrong section man

being faithful these days is like being a cat in heat. cut to the chase and tell us what u r trying to say.

I relate to, and agree with so many of your views. Thank you for sharing this.

wow...just be true to yourself, everything else is just marshmallow fluff.