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Topic: Starting a relationship
buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Mon 05/05/08 06:52 AM
and let me tell you its easy for a guy to pretend hes a nice guy for a month

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 05/05/08 06:52 AM
I think if you bring it to soon, like just after a few dates, you could scare the other person away... jmo

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Mon 05/05/08 06:53 AM
depends on what you do in that time frame!

Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Mon 05/05/08 06:54 AM
Thanks butttons I agree Jill, Its something that has to slowly happen

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 05/05/08 06:54 AM
depends on what you do in that time frame!

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Mon 05/05/08 06:54 AM
I think if you bring it to soon, like just after a few dates, you could scare the other person away... jmo that's why I said initially just don't ask!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 05/05/08 06:55 AM
When do u think is the proper amount of time to have the talk with someone u are seeing to be in a relationship??....I know most ppl will say it depends on how the person feels and all but im just looking for opinions and some input. I kinda feel like why ruin a good thing by putting a label on it why label it? It's sort of a given after 3-4 straight dates anyhow. As we get older terms like "going with one another" become funny sounding and silly. The is much power in the unsaid word. You can just look into one another's eyes and know. That my $.02. So, you're saying....you won't go steady? No pin, no letter jacket...nothin'? I might with you, but that's it Awww! Just so you know, I don't go parkin at the bluff without a class ring! I'm just not that kind of girl. Harrumph

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 05/05/08 06:55 AM
I think if you bring it to soon, like just after a few dates, you could scare the other person away... jmo that's why I said initially just don't ask! so just assume and don't tell him? that works too

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Mon 05/05/08 06:57 AM
depends on what you do in that time frame! If you have sex, enjoy it! If they say I Love You, worry. If they start picking out silverware patterns, run!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 05/05/08 06:58 AM
depends on what you do in that time frame! If you have sex, enjoy it! If they say I Love You, worry. If they start picking out silverware patterns, run!

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Mon 05/05/08 06:58 AM Edited by Peccy on Mon 05/05/08 07:00 AM
When do u think is the proper amount of time to have the talk with someone u are seeing to be in a relationship??....I know most ppl will say it depends on how the person feels and all but im just looking for opinions and some input. I kinda feel like why ruin a good thing by putting a label on it why label it? It's sort of a given after 3-4 straight dates anyhow. As we get older terms like "going with one another" become funny sounding and silly. The is much power in the unsaid word. You can just look into one another's eyes and know. That my $.02. So, you're saying....you won't go steady? No pin, no letter jacket...nothin'? I might with you, but that's it Awww! Just so you know, I don't go parkin at the bluff without a class ring! I'm just not that kind of girl. Harrumph was it at the bluff in the buff? I'm not sure where my class ring is!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 05/05/08 07:06 AM
When do u think is the proper amount of time to have the talk with someone u are seeing to be in a relationship??....I know most ppl will say it depends on how the person feels and all but im just looking for opinions and some input. I kinda feel like why ruin a good thing by putting a label on it why label it? It's sort of a given after 3-4 straight dates anyhow. As we get older terms like "going with one another" become funny sounding and silly. The is much power in the unsaid word. You can just look into one another's eyes and know. That my $.02. So, you're saying....you won't go steady? No pin, no letter jacket...nothin'? I might with you, but that's it Awww! Just so you know, I don't go parkin at the bluff without a class ring! I'm just not that kind of girl. Harrumph was it at the bluff in the buff? I'm not sure where my class ring is! Yeah, well...I never gave em back either. It's my favorite collection.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 05/05/08 07:08 AM
Can we stop with the full quoting? Either cut and paste or just type! SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Annoying, folks.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 05/05/08 07:13 AM
Can we stop with the full quoting? Either cut and paste or just type! SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Annoying, folks. Sowwy...Does "I'm new still work?"

Phoenix0311 Joined Sun 03/25/07 Posts: 3389	Mon 05/05/08 07:21 AM
... I need advice and all the help I can get in this department... HELP!!!!

Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Mon 05/05/08 07:25 AM
... I need advice and all the help I can get in this department... HELP!!!! Since i am the one who started this post, i doubt i will be any help