Topic: it sucks being single
madamx7316's photo
Sun 05/11/08 05:52 PM


i just dont get it. at a card table im a ruthless cold blooded assassin wont be intimidated at all. i run into an attractive girl in person i freeze like a popsicle.


Yes... and women can smell your fear. Act it out.... it is mind over matter. You are the issue, not the attractive woman. You control you...Empower yourself.


well said lilith flowerforyou

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Sun 05/11/08 05:52 PM


Yes... and women can smell your fear. Act it out.... it is mind over matter. You are the issue, not the attractive woman. You control you...Empower yourself.


Women are not great white sharks!! laugh


You have not met my ex, have you?

madamx7316's photo
Sun 05/11/08 05:53 PM


Yes... and women can smell your fear. Act it out.... it is mind over matter. You are the issue, not the attractive woman. You control you...Empower yourself.


Women are not great white sharks!! laugh


some of us are worse...hehehe devil

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Sun 05/11/08 05:55 PM

Sometimes it sucks to be in a relationship, too.
Agree

whereuat85's photo
Sun 05/11/08 05:56 PM
women want the guy that is confident i dont have that dont think i will ever be able to that guy. im just venting about not being able to be that guy. so i just have to get used to staying some days like tonight i just get depressed about it.

chriswantstocuddle's photo
Sun 05/11/08 05:57 PM

no one to cuddle with no one to hold hands with no one to snuggle with no one to share a good or bad day with im so sad and lonely. im going to have to figure out away to be happy being single.


well as bad as it is being single it could always be worse.
dont worry im sure there is someone out there for you.

lilith401's photo
Sun 05/11/08 05:58 PM
Edited by lilith401 on Sun 05/11/08 05:59 PM

women want the guy that is confident i dont have that dont think i will ever be able to that guy. im just venting about not being able to be that guy. so i just have to get used to staying some days like tonight i just get depressed about it.


You have a choice. You are the guy you want to be. If you want to be confident, make that a goal and work towards it.

It is like not voting and then comlaining about politics. It just isn't right.

Thank you Madam...flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Sun 05/11/08 05:58 PM

women want the guy that is confident i dont have that dont think i will ever be able to that guy. im just venting about not being able to be that guy. so i just have to get used to staying some days like tonight i just get depressed about it.


You are setting yourself to fail by assuming you know what women want. Dont put up excuses or assume you know more than what is being said.

We women are highly complex, friendship is a great place to start. JMO


whereuat85's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:01 PM
Edited by whereuat85 on Sun 05/11/08 06:02 PM
the ones with positive remarks and advice thx the ones with negative no one forced you to post the ones being negative hey noone forced you post. why waste the time being negative.

franshade's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:02 PM
sad sad sad I was only trying to help sad sad sad


lilith401's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:03 PM
Is this a thread where we can only post if we commiserate with you rather than offer heartfelt and sincere advice?

whereuat85's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:04 PM
guilty conscience didn't list names

franshade's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:05 PM

guilty conscience didn't list names


sunshine that was sarcasm from me, if you didnt want responses nor advice maybe 'you' shouldnt have posted

MrWrongman's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:05 PM

the ones with positive remarks and advice thx the ones with negative no one forced you to post the ones being negative hey noone id have rather you not posted at all.


Dude honestly women are attracted to confidence no matter what they say, try going to the gym working out that should make u feel better about yourself and get that confidence going:wink:

whereuat85's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:06 PM
all im saying if your going to be negative their are 100's of other posts to post on why waste the time.

franshade's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:08 PM

all im saying if your going to be negative their are 100's of other posts to post on why waste the time.


just like there are 100's of woe is me posts/no one loves me posts.

take the positive out of what was said, nothing I read was negative rather informative.

no one is here to get you.flowerforyou

whereuat85's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:09 PM
im not saying anyone was out to get me

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Sun 05/11/08 06:12 PM


all im saying if your going to be negative their are 100's of other posts to post on why waste the time.


just like there are 100's of woe is me posts/no one loves me posts.

take the positive out of what was said, nothing I read was negative rather informative.

no one is here to get you.flowerforyou


Anybody bring some cheese???

to go along with the whine?

From that statement Im sure the girls are just waiting in line to ask you out


This is not negative???? ^^^^^^


Let's be real for a second. Many of us have been guilty, myself included, of being negative when someone posts a topic we find silly or offensive to our sensibilities

franshade's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:17 PM
Edited by franshade on Sun 05/11/08 06:19 PM
entirely up to the reader on how to interpret

however, you posted two different quotes so not sure who you are referring to.

blushing Because I am real all the time blushing

flowerforyou

MrWrongman's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:18 PM
I just hope he's taking some of this advice