Topic: i need some serious advice
heartofgold321's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:12 PM
just wait, if You are serious about the other one!

poohbearface19's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:12 PM

You're gonna wanna go into hiding, fast, buddy. The women here will eat you alive for this one.

All I'm gonna say, is if you have something going on with someone 2.5 hours away, and she's talking baby and marriage.. sleeping with someone you work with in the meantime just because you know you can "get lucky" qualifies you for the award of Lower Than Alligator Piss.

Be a man, tell your coworker, "Thanks, I'm flattered, but I'm in a relationship with someone else.". Then tell the other one what happened and the choice you made. Be a man, not a douchebag. Please.

JMNSHO


I NEED A MAN LIEK U

Shaden's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:12 PM
If you truly care for the girl/woman you are talking to ask yourself how you'd feel is the situation was reveresed. That's why you are seeming not like a nice guy. A commitment is serious and requires you to behave accordingly. I hope you choose well. Our actions determine who we are.

Neurofriction's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:13 PM


MEN ARE ALL THE FREAKIN SAME DOGS AND LIARS ARENTTHEY


huh grumble noway My thoughts exactly (well, maybe not as nicely put)

I hope you ment all dogs are the same and real men are men.flowerforyou

Cuz this guy has no idea how it works.

No1sLove's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:13 PM
It is my opinion that the choices people make in such matters speak volumes about the level of respect they truly have for those they profess to love.

no photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:13 PM
pick the one that will make you happy and whole you seem to know the out come of whatever choice you make . so be a man a bout it and stop looking for an excuse to do both. what goes around comes around .

no photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:13 PM

her is the situation. i have been talking to this lady for more than 3 months. we talk at least twice a day on the phone ad well as online. i think we are getting serious. to the point that we have talked about engagement and having a baby. she lives 2.5 hours away from me and i am planning on spending the 4th of july weekend with her. here is the part i need advice about. there is a olady that i work with that wants me to come over to her house tomarrow after she gets off work. i know, because of recent conversations, that if i go to her house i will get lucky. so the advice i am looking for is weather or not i should go ahead and go to her house tomarrow and get lucky and not tell the one that i think i am getting serious with or should i just keep it in my pants and wait until the 4th of july weekend. keep in mind i have no rings on my fingers and not yet in a commited relationship
pfffffffffffft obviously youre not ready for a real relationship......or let me put it this way......mature enough for a relationship!!noway laugh

wyatt1844's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:14 PM

MEN ARE ALL THE FREAKIN SAME DOGS AND LIARS ARENTTHEY


No we are not...


DUDE - you want to start a relationship out with lies, deception, and cheating???

That's not "getting lucky" - that's being stupid.

ljcc1964's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:14 PM

You're gonna wanna go into hiding, fast, buddy. The women here will eat you alive for this one.

All I'm gonna say, is if you have something going on with someone 2.5 hours away, and she's talking baby and marriage.. sleeping with someone you work with in the meantime just because you know you can "get lucky" qualifies you for the award of Lower Than Alligator Piss.

Be a man, tell your coworker, "Thanks, I'm flattered, but I'm in a relationship with someone else.". Then tell the other one what happened and the choice you made. Be a man, not a douchebag. Please.

JMNSHO



he he he....you're funny....

Redshirt's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:14 PM
Dude....Keep you fly closed. Ask yourself....is one night of "pleasure" worth the guilt? Worth the risk of destroying what sounds like an valued relationship?

Jill298's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:15 PM
ok... FIRST of all... why in the blazes of hell are you considering marriage and a baby with a woman you have never met?? And if you REALLY felt that strong about her, you would not be even considering "getting lucky" with another woman from work. Reconsider your situation

bastet126's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:16 PM

her is the situation. i have been talking to this lady for more than 3 months. we talk at least twice a day on the phone ad well as online. i think we are getting serious. to the point that we have talked about engagement and having a baby. she lives 2.5 hours away from me and i am planning on spending the 4th of july weekend with her. here is the part i need advice about. there is a olady that i work with that wants me to come over to her house tomarrow after she gets off work. i know, because of recent conversations, that if i go to her house i will get lucky. so the advice i am looking for is weather or not i should go ahead and go to her house tomarrow and get lucky and not tell the one that i think i am getting serious with or should i just keep it in my pants and wait until the 4th of july weekend. keep in mind i have no rings on my fingers and not yet in a commited relationship


so when the lady (not the co-worker) asks you what you did that day and you have to lie, is that the person you want to be? tsk tsk for having to even ask this.

no photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:16 PM
You obviously haven't got a clue how to treat a woman with respect.

sportsnut69's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:16 PM
Fri 05/16/08 10:11 PM
NEVER LET A GIRL START TALKING ABOUT KIDS AND MARRAIGE OR U START EITHEIR......IF U ARE NOT COMMITTED OR NOT EVNE DATING........WORSE IFU PLAN ON SCORING WIHT ANOTHER GIRL THEN GO BACK LIKE NOTHING TOO THE ONE THAT OBVIUSLLEY IS HEAD OVER HEELS FOR U THAT S MESSED UP CRAP RIGHT THERE




thanks. i needed this and i have made my mind up. i qam going to tell the lady that i am going to see the 4th of july weekend about the girl i work with and i am not going to go to her house tomarow

No1sLove's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:17 PM

ok... FIRST of all... why in the blazes of hell are you considering marriage and a baby with a woman you have never met?? And if you REALLY felt that strong about her, you would not be even considering "getting lucky" with another woman from work. Reconsider your situation
Nicely stated! Thank you (((Jill)))! flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:19 PM
dude seriously....your talking about marriage and babies and u want to cheat, sorry but thats th stuff that makes guys look bad....grumble

hikerchick's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:19 PM

Dude....Keep you fly closed. Ask yourself....is one night of "pleasure" worth the guilt? Worth the risk of destroying what sounds like an valued relationship?


hey - I know you.flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:19 PM
I look at it like this... if you told the girl that lives 2.5 hours away about the other woman, she's going to be very upset and hurt, therefore you are in the wrong and should not go to the other woman's house.
If you do something you know is going to hurt someone else, it's just plain wrong and you need to reconsider your feelings about this woman.

poohbearface19's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:19 PM

Fri 05/16/08 10:11 PM
NEVER LET A GIRL START TALKING ABOUT KIDS AND MARRAIGE OR U START EITHEIR......IF U ARE NOT COMMITTED OR NOT EVNE DATING........WORSE IFU PLAN ON SCORING WIHT ANOTHER GIRL THEN GO BACK LIKE NOTHING TOO THE ONE THAT OBVIUSLLEY IS HEAD OVER HEELS FOR U THAT S MESSED UP CRAP RIGHT THERE




thanks. i needed this and i have made my mind up. i qam going to tell the lady that i am going to see the 4th of july weekend about the girl i work with and i am not going to go to her house tomarow


thank thank u very much my work here is done

Neurofriction's photo
Fri 05/16/08 10:19 PM
Edited by Neurofriction on Fri 05/16/08 10:20 PM

Fri 05/16/08 10:11 PM
NEVER LET A GIRL START TALKING ABOUT KIDS AND MARRAIGE OR U START EITHEIR......IF U ARE NOT COMMITTED OR NOT EVNE DATING........WORSE IFU PLAN ON SCORING WIHT ANOTHER GIRL THEN GO BACK LIKE NOTHING TOO THE ONE THAT OBVIUSLLEY IS HEAD OVER HEELS FOR U THAT S MESSED UP CRAP RIGHT THERE

True never start. That's called leading her on man.huh




thanks. i needed this and i have made my mind up. i qam going to tell the lady that i am going to see the 4th of july weekend about the girl i work with and i am not going to go to her house tomarow