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Topic: QUESTION FOR THE MEN
krobin02's photo
Thu 05/22/08 09:16 AM


ok guys ....is it just me...or is it yall that dont like the thick girls.....in iowa....cuz i have had the worst luck so whats up


what's stopping you from loosing weight?


Sorry... stopping at this one before I read any further.

Talk about an insensitive question.

don23564's photo
Thu 05/22/08 08:13 PM
not to me i'll love you all no matter the size . you can't judge a book by its cover. there are some that is good then ther are the ones that dids to be put in the trash . but you all avery specail group of women

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 05/23/08 04:30 AM


ok guys ....is it just me...or is it yall that dont like the thick girls.....in iowa....cuz i have had the worst luck so whats up


I wrote a longer, more detailed explanation in the "skinny girls" topic in General Discussion, but I'll sum it up to my key point:

Most men just want a woman of a HEALTHY WEIGHT.

We're not looking for skinny fashion models. Some guys do like larger women, my two friends are among them. Some guys are just very shallow and demand their women look young, skinny, and perfect. Most men (including me) though just like women of a healthy weight and lifestyle.


Exactly what I said on page 1. I know that's what I personally look for too. It's not just men. :wink:

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 05/23/08 04:31 AM
BTW though, it's not like you ladies are alone. And I had a dear friend who joined some site called BBW (Big Beautiful Women) .. she married a guy from there! Success story drinker

beachbum069's photo
Fri 05/23/08 04:40 AM
I like women for their personality. Yes looks are what initially attracts me to a woman, but it's the personality that makes the realtionship work.flowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 05/23/08 04:42 AM

I like women for their personality. Yes looks are what initially attracts me to a woman, but it's the personality that makes the realtionship work.flowerforyou


but see that's the million dollar phrase here hon ... 'initially attracts' so if you don't get in the 'door' then you wouldn't know about the personality :wink:

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Fri 05/23/08 04:55 AM
I think your lack of response here has less to do with your looks/size and more to do with the site itself. I have found JSH is more an online friends network and less a dating site.

I am a size 6 and had little romantic interest here...

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 05/23/08 05:08 AM
Good point tulsa. I'm not looking for romance on here, though I've had a lot of opportunities, so I don't think that way. :wink:

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