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Topic: Do women need to be tamed??
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Sat 09/09/06 02:54 PM
Is freedom or order more important in a relationship//WILL

bliss420's photo
Sat 09/09/06 02:59 PM
i belive freedom 2 a certian point is in the best interest of the
relationship if there is no freedom then we will rebel and if there is 2
much we think u don't care but no tamin and try lettin lose w us we can
b so much more fun if u just give us gidelines like no sleepin w other
people but if we r just playin a harmless game of pool w anouther guy
don't get all crazy bec u know who we r goin home w

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Sat 09/09/06 03:05 PM
LOVE IS A BATTLEFIELD..

HOTMOMMA's photo
Sat 09/09/06 03:05 PM
you are so right bliss as long as thay dont go crazy just because

MynDLash's photo
Sat 09/09/06 03:13 PM
Well I think that most women like men already come with that inate
ability of order it's just when you try to push someone to do what they
don't like that they become infused from lack of freedom. So, to answer
your question both are very important.

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Sat 09/09/06 03:16 PM
well said!!

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Sat 09/09/06 05:24 PM
i don't think that taming(changing)anyone ever works if you become
involved with someone and there is something that bothers you about them
you have to determine if it is something that you can deal with. you
have to accept people for who they are because if you can't live(deal)
with that part of that person don't think you can change that part and
live happily ever after, it rarely works that way in real life

gterry05's photo
Sat 09/09/06 07:43 PM
Heres the thing everything will be just fine as long as she does what I
say!!!lol..

PublicAnimalNo9's photo
Sat 09/09/06 07:56 PM
here's what it boils down to..women marry hoping the man will
change..men marry hoping the woman won't

bliss420's photo
Sun 09/10/06 12:20 AM
that is so true lol !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Countrygurl2wild's photo
Sun 09/10/06 12:24 AM
But if you love a person enough to marry them, why would you want them
to change. They should be everything you want already, you should want
them not to change.

Fyresyren's photo
Sun 09/10/06 12:48 AM
I had a boyfriend who was next to me constantly and controlled all of my
free time. Lets just say that didn't last long. We need our freedom but
generally it's only to an extent. You made a good comment about getting
married, about not wanting them to change. In the end we do though,
because we might not have gotten what we expected. Okay, I think I am a
little of subject here.

lionsbrew's photo
Sun 09/10/06 12:54 AM
i think people change regardless ...life experiance has a way of doing
that way.me personally i dont like not having freedom
my ex didnt want me doing anything away from the house but she would go
out with her freinds all the time there was definatly a double standard
there not the main reason i wanted a divorce but it was a deciding
factor

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Sun 09/10/06 01:02 AM
i think you should be able to see what they are like if it is heading
towards a serious relationship and if you aren't willing to accept them
for who they are and you figure that you can change them over time, it's
gonna get messy. people have to quit with the comquest idea if they
can't accept it when the person doesn't change

Countrygurl2wild's photo
Sun 09/10/06 07:16 AM
If you except them for the way they are, why would you want to change
them.

lionsbrew's photo
Sun 09/10/06 07:42 AM
i wouldnt want to change somebody but i would want to be with someone
who can see me for who i am and who i want to be and help encourage me
and vice versa

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Sun 09/10/06 07:59 AM
I really think "tamed" is the wrong word to use. And why only women?
What about men?

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Sun 09/10/06 03:22 PM
that's interesting because my last relationship ended because of this.
she changed in to a person that i could not even be friends with(i
wanted the girl i had years before)and even though she knew what i was
like, she spent the next couple years trying to change little things
about me. i eventually got tired of the bullshit and left her.

JusKat58's photo
Mon 09/11/06 05:50 AM
Anyone even THINKING of trying to tame this wildcat had better come with
a whip, a chair and better pack a lunch, too...

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Mon 09/11/06 06:04 AM
AWESOME!! WILL

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