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Topic: How do I stop being a nice guy?
atleedagod Joined Mon 05/26/08 Posts: 738	Sat 05/31/08 02:12 AM
I think he just needs to buy some really cool after shave!!! No, He just needs to e-mail you instead of the other women!! ok i have to ask is your dog eating a Fin king snake

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 05/31/08 02:12 AM
I think he just needs to buy some really cool after shave!!! No, He just needs to e-mail you instead of the other women!! why me????

Fanta46 Joined Sat 11/11/06 Posts: 29361	Sat 05/31/08 02:14 AM
I think he just needs to buy some really cool after shave!!! No, He just needs to e-mail you instead of the other women!! ok i have to ask is your dog eating a Fin king snake Yes, Its a black snake. She killed it!

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sat 05/31/08 02:14 AM
1-800-Gypsyknows

Adeph Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 306	Sat 05/31/08 02:14 AM
So basically what youre saying is that you will become a jerk to women so they will love you??? Isnt that a bit of a oxymoron or just even a moron???? changing the way i am for an ignorant b*h haah hell no i am stil a nice guy, and to the other guy no im not 100% of th time but my percentage is a load more than a lot, but i dont change its not worth it but in my experience the nice guy loses the race to the jerk If life is a race, then I think it would be better to be the one who takes longer to reach the finish line. that analogy wasnt exactly intended to be used in a stop and smell the roses kind of way, more of a ** i cant pull off a win n get the trophy at the finish line to save my life kentucky derby(and god if i dont feel like both my ankles are break in a lot sometimes llol) too soon ? not nice drive through the country lol, I guess a better one would be: Life is a prize fight, and the guy who's better at giving black eyes usually wins

Fanta46 Joined Sat 11/11/06 Posts: 29361	Sat 05/31/08 02:15 AM
1-800-Gypsyknows The Gypsy school of love.................

Fanta46 Joined Sat 11/11/06 Posts: 29361	Sat 05/31/08 02:16 AM
Watch the guard dog though, Muriel bites

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 05/31/08 02:16 AM
1-800-Gypsyknows I knowwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!

atleedagod Joined Mon 05/26/08 Posts: 738	Sat 05/31/08 02:17 AM
So basically what youre saying is that you will become a jerk to women so they will love you??? Isnt that a bit of a oxymoron or just even a moron???? changing the way i am for an ignorant b*h haah hell no i am stil a nice guy, and to the other guy no im not 100% of th time but my percentage is a load more than a lot, but i dont change its not worth it but in my experience the nice guy loses the race to the jerk If life is a race, then I think it would be better to be the one who takes longer to reach the finish line. that analogy wasnt exactly intended to be used in a stop and smell the roses kind of way, more of a i cant pull off a win n get the trophy at the finish line to save my life kentucky derby(and god if i dont feel like both my ankles are break in a lot sometimes llol) too soon ? not nice drive through the country lol, I guess a better one would be: Life is a prize fight, and the guy who's better at giving black eyes usually wins ehh race analogies are more simple and widely used so i keep to the simple basics but hey i cant box for ** so yours works to

atleedagod Joined Mon 05/26/08 Posts: 738	Sat 05/31/08 02:18 AM
I think he just needs to buy some really cool after shave!!! No, He just needs to e-mail you instead of the other women!! ok i have to ask is your dog eating a Fin king snake Yes, Its a black snake. She killed it! ok just had to check on that that image hasnt stopped catching my eye LOL

Squeeian Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 21	Sat 05/31/08 02:18 AM
I can understand that one. But also to your earlier post of it being simple numbers, it got me thinking that it could also be location, I mean all there is to do around here is drink and rape sorority sisters. Though the college is really trying to stop the rapes. Maybe I just need to find a more cultured kind of woman, one who isn't afraid of being honest and who is interested in commitment. Thanks.

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Sat 05/31/08 02:20 AM Edited by Spaceman2008 on Sat 05/31/08 02:21 AM
Well I guess my problem is I don't know how to be a jerk, but all I see is women going for the jerks and they don't care if they hurt the women cause they know that the women will come back to them or they will just go out and get another one. My thing is I feel that I got suckered by all the women I have wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I'm sick of it. I just don't know what to do, so twisted logic states: go be a jerk, you feel better about yourself, maybe. Of course I don't really know. cause honestly I don't think I can be come a jerk, I'm afraid if I tried I would end up taking it too far and nobody wants that, least of all me. Dude, Here's what you need to do: 1.) Be true to yourself...don't become something you aren't. If you do, you are responsible for letting all the bi****s win. DO NOT LET SOME winch make you turn yourself into something you aren't....no chic is worth it... 2.) Love yourself...not conceited, mind you, but look into yourself and find what qualities you have that are positive...use those qualities to bring the negative qualities out, and make them positive. 3.) Spend time with yourself....go on a road trip, find a hobby....do whatever you can to try to fill that void. 4.) When you least expect it, she'll be there (I'm still waiting on mine....) Any questions, let me know.

Adeph Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 306	Sat 05/31/08 02:21 AM
I can understand that one. But also to your earlier post of it being simple numbers, it got me thinking that it could also be location, I mean all there is to do around here is drink and rape sorority sisters. Though the college is really trying to stop the rapes. Maybe I just need to find a more cultured kind of woman, one who isn't afraid of being honest and who is interested in commitment. Thanks. um. . . if you're serious, you must live in one of the circles of hell, so moving would be most advisable.

Squeeian Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 21	Sat 05/31/08 02:23 AM
Got the hobby that's not an issue. I can completely understand not looking for her. One of em blind sided me with a rock. lol. I still have the bumps to prove it. But it does got lonly sometimes.

LATENCHITA Joined Thu 04/24/08 Posts: 166	Sat 05/31/08 02:23 AM
**** ITS NOT ONLY GUYS THAT ARE TOO NICE ITS GIRLS TO THATS WHY WE GET FU$K OVER I DID SO JUST LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST

Squeeian Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 21	Sat 05/31/08 02:24 AM
Michigan State University might not qualfy as hell, but it's getting there.

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Sat 05/31/08 02:24 AM
**** ITS NOT ONLY GUYS THAT ARE TOO NICE ITS GIRLS TO THATS WHY WE GET FU$K OVER I DID SO JUST LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST YEP! You got it, sis!

Squeeian Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 21	Sat 05/31/08 02:25 AM
I'm sorry for what happened to you. Though I plan to follow your example.

Squeeian Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 21	Sat 05/31/08 02:36 AM
Thanks for helping me get some perspective guys and girls.

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Sat 05/31/08 03:10 AM
yup.